Seven Memories From My Childhood.

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By Jabo
@jaboUK (64361)
United Kingdom
December 29, 2015 1:29pm CST
LoriAMoore has written about seven of her childhood memories and asked us to do the same. I had a job paring it down to 7, but here are mine. 1. My parents didn't possess a car when I was a child, but they had a tandem bicycle with a sidecar attached. Dad rode on the front of the bike, Mum at the back and we three little girls would pile into the sidecar. This was really just a crate on wheels, but we thought it was wonderful. We'd explore the local countryside like that. 2. Rolling down the grassy hill at the back of my grandparents' home. 3. Sliding frogspawn through my fingers in the local brook, and later being delighted when tadpoles emerged. 4. Making a 'slide' on the canal when it froze over in the winter. It's a wonder we never fell through and drowned. 5. Helping my mother on washday by attempting to turn the mangle. 6. I remember the hissing and sputting of the gas lamps in my grandparents home. They didn't have electricity. 7. Picking wild flowers for my mother - bluebells, primroses and cowslips in the Spring, buttercups, daisies and dandelions in the summer. She never told me that dandelions were weeds, but accepted them all graciously. Are you going to tell us some of your memories?
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@antonbunot (11091)
• Calgary, Alberta
29 Dec 15
Playing "house" with other kids when I was a kid! . . I was always the father and the prettiest girl was the mother. All the rest were our children. Obviously, I started early . . that is why I also married early at age 21!
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 15
@antonbunot Lol - you started as you meant to go on!
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
30 Dec 15
but it was nice to marry young because your children grow up like you and them are siblings, right?
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@ridingbet I didn't marry young, but am best friends with my children, though I don't think of them as siblings.
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@troyburns (1405)
• New Zealand
30 Dec 15
We share three of these experiences. I remember picking wild blackberries - Is this something you did when you were young?
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@troyburns Oh yes - I remember getting my arms and legs scratched while reaching for those little beauties. We also picked wild strawberries - sweet tiny little things. You going to do one of these posts? Please do.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@troyburns But Robin - it's longer ago for me, and I manage! Get to it
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@troyburns (1405)
• New Zealand
30 Dec 15
@jaboUK - But it's so long ago..! I probably will - sifting through the memories and selecting half a dozen will be a fun challenge.
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@Juliaacv (48508)
• Canada
30 Dec 15
I can remember rolling down grassy hills too, do kids even do that today? You've got some wonderful memories.
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@Juliaacv (48508)
• Canada
30 Dec 15
@jaboUK I know, they are missing out. I just took a stroll down memory lane and did up a discussion. Most of mine based on the scent of smell, the smell of fresh apples, bales of hay, even the smell of the great outdoors while hoeing a bean field.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@Juliaacv Right, I'm coming to read yours now
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@Juliaacv I remember us doing a similar post on Bubbs - I think you started it there. Kids are missing out if they don't know the pleasure of rolling downhill.
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@maggs224 (2320)
• Alicante, Spain
30 Dec 15
I loved this post Janet, and can relate to everything but the tandem. I wish my old dad's bike had been a tandem and had a side car. Like you I loved the frogspawn and the resulting tadpoles.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@maggs224 I think the tandem was pretty unique - my parents had it when they were courting, and then added the sidecar when we came along. It didn't have any seats or anything - we just sat on a blanket.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
2 Jan 16
@maggs224 That's true, and it enabled us to a lot farther afield.
@maggs224 (2320)
• Alicante, Spain
2 Jan 16
@jaboUK It sounds cool and it was transport which beats walking lol...
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@just4him (306722)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Dec 15
Those are all wonderful memories. I loved the tandem bike. What fun that must have been, and the slide on the canal. I agree, the things we did in our childhoods makes even me wonder how I'm still walking God's earth.
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@suzzy3 (8342)
1 Jan 16
We did not have health and safety in the old days. We had neighbours saying they would tell my Mum if I did it again. Or we got a bloody knee and grass stained pants.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 15
@just4him As you say, it's a wonder we survived our childhood!
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@just4him (306722)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
29 Dec 15
@jaboUK I've started my list. I don't know if I can come up with seven.
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@JudyEv (326098)
• Rockingham, Australia
30 Dec 15
Lovely memories. Life was a bit simpler then I think. I wonder what 7 things today's kids will remember in 60 years time?
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@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
30 Dec 15
@jaboUK I wonder what my children will remember when they are old. No TV, no video games, very limited tablet time.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@JudyEv I expect all their memories will concern electronics
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@troyburns (1405)
• New Zealand
30 Dec 15
@jaboUK - That's an interesting one. If I was to ask Dom about the special things he likes doing, I doubt whether more than one or two would be about "screen time". I hope he remembers the times we spent reading scary stories together.
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@celticeagle (159359)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Dec 15
Sounds like a very happy childhood. Mine was also. I will have to write mine up. Guess I haven't gotten to Lori's post yet.
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@celticeagle (159359)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Dec 15
@jaboUK ...I wrote it up. Did you reply? I don't recall.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@celticeagle Sure did.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@celticeagle I'd love to see your version - I love reading about people's early days.
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@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
30 Dec 15
Thanks @nanette64 for bringing me here. @jaboUK - it is good reading all the memories that you have shared with us here. I never have had any access to frozen things (as in frozen canal) as we always have been in the hotter parts - someday, if possible, I would love to go out and see some snow or even the ice caps. I loved reading #7 wherein you got flowers for your mom. That must have been a very loving moment for both of you. ps: I will post mine soon (maybe tomorrow).
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@thesids It seems strange to realise that some people have never experienced ice and snow - perhaps you will one day. We didn't have any money as children so used to roam the fields and hedgerows for the wild flowers. I look forward to reading yours, as I suggested you did your own, on Nanette's post.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
30 Dec 15
You are welcome @thesids .
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@LadyDuck (458794)
• Switzerland
30 Dec 15
Number 4 can be dangerous, you were lucky. I also remember picking wild flowers for my mother, I still do this when I go to visit.
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@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
29 Dec 15
I can't remember much from that time, but do remember climbing trees, laying in the grass watching the clouds and picking flowers for my mom. We didn't have a TV until I was 15, so had to do all the outdoorsy things
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@gr8nana6 I was about 13 when we first got a TV - we had to make our own fun, didn't we?
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@gr8nana6 Yes - what toys we had were mostly homemade.
@gr8nana6 (6614)
• Conyers, Georgia
30 Dec 15
@jaboUK Yup we sure did, there wasn't an abundance of toys like children have nowadays. I had 1 dolly and that was it.
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• United States
30 Dec 15
I have very few childhood memories. Mostly they appear when someone mentions something similar to what happened to me.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@ElizabethWallace I find that the more I delve, the more memories appear.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
31 Dec 15
@ElizabethWallace I tend to not dwell on the bad things, though of course I can't help remembering them sometimes.
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• United States
31 Dec 15
@jaboUK Good and bad, right? I could do without remembering the bad times. There were plenty of those.
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@Poppylicious (11133)
30 Dec 15
These are lovely memories. I will have to do a similar post tomorrow, to remind me of being happy!
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@Poppylicious I hope you do a post like this, I'll watch out for it. (I hope you don't mean that you aren't happy now?)
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@Poppylicious I'm sorry.
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30 Dec 15
@jaboUK Being a bit unhappy is a side effect of depression sometimes. *grin*
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
30 Dec 15
I have so many memories to share, they are all vividly stored in my mind.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@ridingbet Well bring them out Ingrid, we'd love to read them
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@ridingbet Oh my goodness - I'm really intrigued now. Can you write about it?
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
30 Dec 15
@jaboUK some are like scenes from the Amityville Horror, my friend, and I can still remember the face of my father (+) when he saw me like an angel rescuing him and my mother(+).
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
30 Dec 15
Wonderful childhood memories.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@fishtiger58 You must have a few too that you can post about?
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@fishtiger58 Yes, you should have made a post about them, though I did see them on Lori's post.
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@fishtiger58 (29823)
• Momence, Illinois
30 Dec 15
@jaboUK I do I posted them on Lori's post. Guess I should have done what you did.
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@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
30 Dec 15
These are lovely and precious memories! I always like to read or listen to these childhood memories, especially those simple and fun ones! My husband always said I do not really have "childhood time", as I didn't get to play as much for a kid, my parents always wanted us to study. I guess this is why I am always happy to read those wonderful childhood memories, I always feel happy while reading them. But, I am sure I can think of some memories, I was still a happy child when I was young, it's just that I didn't get to explore or play as much.
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@kaka135 (14916)
• Malaysia
4 Jan 16
@jaboUK I guess I am enjoying my second time childhood now, together with my children. There are a lot of things I haven't done in my childhood, but did them together with my children.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
4 Jan 16
@kaka135 that's good that you are getting a second chance to do things.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@kaka135 I'm sorry you had to study so much as a child, but I hope you can think of some nice memories to write about. I'm pleased you enjoyed reading mine, thanks.
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@suzzy3 (8342)
31 Dec 15
I remember the freedom of playing away from our home. Family holidays were special as it was the only time we spent together as a complete family.
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@suzzy3 (8342)
1 Jan 16
@jaboUK It is a shame but kids these days will never know real freedom. There were weird people about then but you knew who they were and stayed away from them. These days with so many people it is impossible to know who they are. It is best to keep the kids in sight or go out with them.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
1 Jan 16
@suzzy3 You are right, it must be such a worry if you have young children nowadays.
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
1 Jan 16
@suzzy3 We had a lot of freedom then didn't we? There didn't seem to be the weirdos about in those days.
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
30 Dec 15
delightful... memories..... what fun... I used to slide down a hill when we were younger... used to mess my clothes up all the time... my poor mum...creating all that washing....
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@sueznewz2 Why don't you do a list too, Sue?
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@sueznewz2 I'll look out for it.
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@sueznewz2 (10409)
• Alicante, Spain
30 Dec 15
@jaboUK i'm going too... a bit later tonight, i'll see what i can come up with ...lol's...
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• Midland, Michigan
30 Dec 15
I'll consider it, after I read what Lori wrote and after I come back from doing a small window job. I talked my husband into helping as I'm not having a worker come into town just for half an hour. We do a pizza place every other week and when we don't the inside gets too filmy from the heat of the ovens I imagine, so I do at least the inside on time. Not sure whether I'll be doing the outside too, but if I do it's money in the pocket. I have three days off, so I'll be around here and there sometime. I decided to edit this post to include the tags others are using to help us find more of them.
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
Look forward to seeing more of you Marsha. Hope you get your window job done ok - is Michael up to helping after his leg trouble?
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@MarshaMusselman Good, I'm glad he's making progress.
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• Midland, Michigan
30 Dec 15
@jaboUK Since it was such a small job, I figured he'd be fine and he was. It didn't take us long at all. If the snow wasn't shoveled around the store, it would have been more difficult, but he's got a new prosthetic on order and he's hoping to be able to help out more this next year. He's been back to the retail store since Labor Day/ september, but not working a full schedule as yet.
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@poehere (15126)
• French Polynesia
30 Dec 15
How adorable and such sweet childhood memories. I love the bicycle and how it reminded me of my grandma telling me she went from NY to CA in a motorcycle with a side car and two small babies only 13 months apart and both still in diapers. They camped their way across the states.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@poehere That sounds like the subject for a fascinating post of your own Ann. Your Grandma sounds like she was some character.
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@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
30 Dec 15
It's amazing what stands out in our memories as kids isn't it @jaboUK ? I'll do my 7 too.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
30 Dec 15
@nanette64 Yes, I just wrote these ones down, but I have lots more. I'm off to read yours now.
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