Social media is a double-edged sword!

By RayD
@Mbalie (316)
South Africa
January 9, 2016 1:45am CST
Social Media is such a powerful tool. It can be used to drive and foster positive change in society. Twitter, Facebook and Instagram are good ways to reach a big target audience when marketing your business. It connects family, friends and people all around the world. Social Media is also a double-edged sword. Be careful of what you post on Twitter and Facebook. Be mindful not to post statements which are offensive to certain groups of people. In my country there has been an uproar in recent weeks about what certain individuals have been posting recklessly on Social Media. I would rather not go into detail on the matter here as it is a sensitive issue. People have been fired from their jobs because no company wants to be seen as promoting or excusing such behaviour. Some companies and employment agencies even check your social media accounts when you are applying for jobs. Do not get caught in that trap!
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@ria1606roy (2797)
• Kolkata, India
9 Jan 16
Social media isn't what it was 7 or 8 years ago. Back then you could speak whatever came to your mind. Now it has become a sign of your personality, character, ego and mentality. So you have to abide by certain unspoken laws while maintaining a social account. Some unwise posts can reflect badly on your repertoire.
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• Kolkata, India
9 Jan 16
@Mbalie very true.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
9 Jan 16
Yes things have changed over time. Engaging with others in a positive way is so much more satisfying than being egotistical.
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@JudyEv (326149)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Jan 16
Some people are very unwise about what they put on social media. Some bad-mouth their bosses or the company they work for so it's no wonder they get themselves in trouble.
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• Karur, India
9 Jan 16
oh nice
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
9 Jan 16
Yes we need to be careful what we put out there and its also a reflection of your character. @judyev
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
9 Jan 16
I belong to Facebook and keep my settings secure. I only use it to keep in touch with family and close friends. We were told not to use it at all when I taught school.
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
10 Jan 16
@Mbalie neither do I. Too many whackos out there. One friend wanted me to leave my husband and run off with him! No longer a friend. Lol!
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
10 Jan 16
Atleast Facebook has security features. It is up to you who you allow into your space. I never accept friend request on Facebook from people who I do not know.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
10 Jan 16
@DianneN No way... lol
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@hiru84 (942)
• Malaysia
9 Jan 16
Yes, social media is very powerful tool. We must be carefully when we use them.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
9 Jan 16
We should use it to benefit us in a positive way.
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@hiru84 (942)
• Malaysia
10 Jan 16
@Mbalie That's true and we must do it.
• India
9 Jan 16
Yes, you are right. Many people are careless what they post on social networking sites. They just think they will get few likes and comments but at the same time they would have hurt the sentiments of others. There are also cyber bullies who love to unnecessarily argue with someone. They just want to pick up a fight and prove their point. If the other person is shy or a little introvert then his/her confidence is shaken and that person will think a lot before posting something and he/she may never post due to the fear of such elements.
@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
9 Jan 16
Very true. Some see themselves as having power behind their computers.
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• Sayreville, New Jersey
9 Jan 16
I work in social media every day as my job and I can agree with you on this. While I appreciate the many great things that social media has to offer, I also am regularly reminding my clients that posting recklessly can be damaging. Also, there are negative social and behavioral consequences to too much social media, especially for younger people.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
9 Jan 16
My sentiments exactly.
@Teep11 (7674)
• United States
9 Jan 16
It depends on the type of job you have. Social Media is a great tool and the good and the bad lives there.
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@amnabas (13742)
• Karachi, Pakistan
9 Jan 16
Yes you are right.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
9 Jan 16
Yes, it has been awful again, why this is still happening I will never understand! Everyone knows that things will come out on social media. It is disturbing and sad.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
10 Jan 16
@Mbalie , it baffles me too, but you are right, we should remain positive, and things will work out for the best.
@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
10 Jan 16
It really baffles me how ignorant people are. The incidents in the past two weeks have painted our society in a negative light. We should remain positive and things will work out for the best.
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@just4him (307132)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
10 Jan 16
Since this is the only place people are likely to find me, I have no problem with it. I do have a Facebook and Twitter account but it's been weeks since I was on FB and months since I was on Twitter.
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@just4him (307132)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
10 Jan 16
@Mbalie I believe they are.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
10 Jan 16
MyLot is great. It feels like people are more genuine here.
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@T_gray (7774)
• Salina, Kansas
9 Jan 16
My best friend and I talk about this all the time. About how jobs look at your sites sometimes to check you out before hiring you. It's crazy the things that people will post online about themselves sometimes and how open they are. I hardly get on these sites anymore. Mostly because its all the same anymore
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@T_gray (7774)
• Salina, Kansas
10 Jan 16
@Mbalie yeah, people just don't realize.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
10 Jan 16
Whats sad is that some people are not aware that companies check their social profiles. You can get more insight of the kind of person the prospective employee is from their online material.
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• United States
9 Jan 16
@Mbalie very observant discussion about social media.
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• India
10 Jan 16
its indeed a open platform,and freedom of expression is a right here,but we ofcourse should be not enjoying this right at the cost of hurting some community or any religion.one should make most of it by doing some creative,funny,interesting,and mindful activities.
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• India
10 Jan 16
@Mbalie yes its matching
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
10 Jan 16
My sentiments exactly.
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@anggelia (146)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 16
Agree ! We must be careful in use of the social media. There are things that we should not convey in the social media. Because what we write can be read by thousands or maybe millions of people.
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
10 Jan 16
Social has the power to make or break us.
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• Philippines
12 Jan 16
Facebook was meant merely to connect people from your school, friends, relatives and families. at least that's what the founders said when they started this website. but people have been reckless and irresponsible, they want to show the world things that they do, some does lead them to loose their jobs.
@jstory07 (134650)
• Roseburg, Oregon
11 Jan 16
You should only say what you would tell a person to their face. not hide behind a computer and say mean things to others.
@Missmwngi (12926)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Jan 16
I feel like nowadays it is bringing more negative to the youths than positive
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@Mbalie (316)
• South Africa
10 Jan 16
That is why constructive dialog is needed to make the youth aware about the positive and negative impacts it has. We need to channel it in a positive light. Social Media is great if used correctly.
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@Missmwngi (12926)
• Nairobi, Kenya
10 Jan 16
@Mbalie Oooh yeah it can be a great platform for growth
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
10 Jan 16
Honestly, I don't think it's right for an employer to check ones social media sites. You can actually be turned down for a job if you don't have a social media site. I think social media site carry too much power in today's world.
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• Philippines
9 Jan 16
virtual social networking is one of the products the internet technology. it helps build a good virtual representation of yourself connected to your professional world that is sound and true :)
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@nithya1 (14)
• Karur, India
9 Jan 16
correct
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