Saw a woman at Walmart that was showing to much cleavage
@rosekiss (30380)
Eugene, Oregon
February 5, 2016 5:22pm CST
When I saw that woman, I just wanted to tell her to cover herself up, or pull her top up higher. I think it is offensive to dress like that, especially out in public.
When I got to the checkout, the cashier had a low cut shirt on too, but she did have a jacket over it, so she could close it if she chose to.
I don't know why they do that, as it makes no sense. They are drawing to much attention to themselves, and that isn't good at all.
I know it isn't any of my business, but my goodness, women need to understand that they are out in public, and around other families that have children. That isn't good for any child to see at all.
I didn't say anything to her, but I sure would have liked to. She really left nothing to the imagination, that is for sure. I would never dress like that, as I am not trying to find a man, nor am I trying to show off and bring attention to myself.
There is such a thing as modesty, and women like that, need to show it, before they even step out in public.
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@Mike197602 (15487)
• United Kingdom
5 Feb 16
To be honest if I saw a woman like that in my supermarket it'd make my shopping experience waaaaay better
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@Mike197602 (15487)
• United Kingdom
5 Feb 16
@rosekiss Us men...we're just devils
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@cacay1 (83228)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
8 Feb 16
@Mike197602, You are indeed a man,lol.
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@celticeagle (159716)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Feb 16
They don't get it. Some woman now days have little or no class. Then they wonder why they are raped and mistreated. It is amazing. I was brought up by a Baptist grandmother who was very strict. I learned to act like a lady.
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@celticeagle (159716)
• Boise, Idaho
7 Feb 16
@rosekiss ...You're right. The movies are graded PG-13 and yet the women are dressed like professional women. It is awful.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
7 Feb 16
@celticeagle I know what you mean. Most of them now, are full of that stuff, and they are so offensive and the women degrade themselves, and I don't want any part of that at all. It just seems that some things that are on tv now, aren't fit for anyone to watch, that is for sure.
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@boiboing (13153)
• Northampton, England
5 Feb 16
I only agree with one thing you said in this post and that was "I know it isn't any of my business". It wasn't and thank goodness you didn't say anything.
You are not the Taliban to be issuing instructions on how others should dress.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
5 Feb 16
You are so right, and I am glad I didn't say anyting. Actually, I never do say anything to anyone that wants to dress that way. I guess if she wants to dress that way, then it is her probelm if she doesn't get any respect from others. I just know how I would dress,
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
9 Feb 16
@Lucky15 That might be true, but they aren't good stares, as she was trying to get attention, and it was negative attention. I saw her and just looke away, as I was thouroughly disgusted by the way she dressed. I am sure there were a lot of others that felt that way too.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
10 Feb 16
Some were never taught to respect their bodies. I was and I never had a problem getting a date.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
10 Feb 16
She sure didn't have respect for herself, that is for sure. If her intention was to get attention, she would get that alright, but it would be very negative attention. Men would respect her more if she dressed modestly, instead of showing everything that she has. That is totally disgusting for sure.
@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
14 Feb 16
@Marcyaz I just find it so crazy that she felt she had to dress that way to get attention. I am disappointed that Walmart doesn't have signs up that say we should cover up. Years ago, you couldn't go into any store without a shirt and shoes, but times have changed, so they don't seem to push that anymore, and I wish they would.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
14 Feb 16
I am not sure about the dress code, but i think it is so degrading to go to a store, half dressed. It was very offensive to me, and all I could do was shake my head. As far as caring, I amk not sure she did at all. She wouldn't have left the house like that, if she really cared how she looked. I just hink that maybe she feels that she has it so why not flaunt it. Ugh.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
12 Feb 16
That is exactly what I am tinking of too. I was totally disgusted by her dressing that way. If she was trying to get attention, all it would have been was negative, and that isn't good at all. I would never think about dressing that way.
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@MarshaMusselman (38719)
• Midland, Michigan
16 Feb 16
I agree and I see much more than I want to see when cashiering. It's a wonder they don't flop out when bending down to get things off their cart. What's almost as bad as the heavier folks that don't have pants that fit and show half their bottoms as well, and their midriff and you never know what all you'll see.
It's kind of funny, but I feel like I know you more now since you've unveiled the real you, name and image.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
16 Feb 16
Thank you for saying that, as that is why I did it. Anyway, when it comes to the ones that dress provocatively, just disgust me so bad,. I am sure when she bent over they popped out, and I am glad i didn't see that, as I would have really been disgusted. I was offended by her dressing that way, and I hope I never see that ever again.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
18 Feb 16
@MarshaMusselman I certainly did want to say something to her, but I did bite my tongue and said nothing. I am not sure she realizes how offensive she was to other people. I was really offended,, that is for sure.
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@MarshaMusselman (38719)
• Midland, Michigan
18 Feb 16
@rosekiss What's almost worse is when the older women, older than fifty-five dress like teens in short shorts and barely any shirt. Unfortunately, the job I have will not stop them from passing by me, I have to watch and bite my tongue, I wouldn't want to be fired for saying the wrong thing.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
14 Feb 16
@DianneN I agree with you. I have always dressed modestly, as I wasn't about to show myself to anyone whether I was skinny or not. I was always taught to cover up, and I always have, and it sickens me as well, to see womenflaunt their bodes like they do. I just shook my head, and i was thankful, that i was dressed the way I should be.
@DianneN (247219)
• United States
14 Feb 16
@rosekiss It is unfortunate. Who is to blame? The parents, TV, movies???? Many parents don't teach manners or respect anymore. I think it is awful. I am modest by nature and society sickens me. I had dress codes as a teacher, and would think there would be those in a workplace,
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@Morleyhunt (21746)
• Canada
6 Feb 16
Amen. I owned a bridal and formal wear shop...the dresses available to me. The amount of skin I saw on a regular basis.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
7 Feb 16
I know what you mean, as I watch the show say yes to the dress, and most of them leave a lot of skin showing as well, as don't cover up very well in front. It is amazing how many brided though, want those kinds of dresses. It seems like the designers have one style in mind, and that is show all you can, and it is crazy, that is for sure.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
7 Feb 16
@Morleyhunt I am glad to hear that, as it seems that most nowadays,want less coverage. I do think that designers should cater to those that want more coverage, as to me, that looks so much better, and makes for a beaurtiful bride.
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@Morleyhunt (21746)
• Canada
7 Feb 16
@rosekiss in the two years since the store has closed I have actually seen many more dresses that offer more coverage.
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@birjudanak (14320)
• India
6 Apr 16
i am totally agree with you and why she need to wear such a short dress as in public there is children and elders too but its not good sense because people looking her while she wear this kind of dress as other are also there but they are cover it.if i am in place of you then i go in front of her and just laughing....
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
7 Apr 16
@birjudanak I do't umderstand it either, as wering someing low cut is just asking for trouble. The the ting of it is, if someone would touch her inappropritely, then she would holler rape, and that is a shame too. I am not saying that anyone should touch her, and on the same hand she should dress appropriately, so they wouldn't think about trying anyting.
@birjudanak (14320)
• India
7 Apr 16
@rosekiss here people are more intelligent and while someone wear that kind of dress then looking constantly to her and she might feel that he is going to rape so they never wear that kind of dress but one thing i not understand that why she have no sense that what to wear where....
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@whiteream (8567)
• United States
8 Feb 16
I agree, I see this all the time. The thing is I see a lot of young girls like this and it really bothers me. Don' t people check themselves before they leave the house or I guess, they just don't care.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
8 Feb 16
You hit the nail on the head, that they just don't care, and that is a shame too. You would think that they would have more respect for themselves, than to leave the house half covered. You would think she wiould be embarrassed too, but I bet she wasn't.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
8 Feb 16
@whiteream You got that right. Women like that wonder why they are raped, and it is becasue the guy thinks she is wanting it since she is flaunting it. I am not saying that is right, as it isn't, but her dressing that way isn't right either. It goes both ways,, as if she doesn't want to get raped, then dress modestly, and a guy will leave her alone.
@whiteream (8567)
• United States
8 Feb 16
@rosekiss I bet not some people just have no shame.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
7 Feb 16
I am wondering the same thing, as she is the first one I have seen dressed that way.I think that the management should have made her cover up before she started work. The customer though, was much worse, as her shirt was very low cut, and I would have like to have pulled it up for her, but all I could do was shake my head, as it offended me a lot.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
7 Feb 16
@salonga You are so right. You would think that she would have wanted to be covered up, and not show her wares so to speak. It is very immoral, as we are to dress modestly at all times. I would never dress like that even if I had the body for it.
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@LeaPea2417 (36555)
• Toccoa, Georgia
15 Feb 16
I totally agree with you. They want attention from men. But, men think women who dress like that as cheap. Men are way more impressed when they see a good looking woman in public that is modestly dressed. That is much more of a turn on. The reason I know this, is because my husband has said that.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
15 Feb 16
I do agree with you on that one. All she would get is negative attention, and that isn't good at all. I found her very offensive and all I coud do is shake my head and wonder why she would dress that way. I think Walmart was lax in letting her come into the store that way in the first place. They need to put this to a stop, I feel.
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@Tampa_girl7 (49222)
• United States
10 Mar 16
I don't like seeing scantily clad people in public either.
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
10 Mar 16
It was offensive to me, and I don't think that she really cared that she was dressed that way. I certainly wouldn't ever try to dress like that either. I am not sure if she was trying to get attention from men, or what she was trying to do, but if she gets attention at all, it would be all negative attention.
@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
9 Feb 16
It really bothered me that she went out in public, half dressed. Women that dress like that have no respect for themselves whatsoever, so how can they expect anyone else to have respect for them? They really can't, and it is a shame too, but such is life. I just think she should have checked herself before she left home.
@PainsOnSlate (21854)
• Canada
8 Feb 16
We see it every day don't, I think they must think they look sexy...why that is important only they know. Most grow up and are embarrassed how they flaunted their bodies when younger....it the old enough to know better that bother me when the flaunt what they have.
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@Missmwngi (12926)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Feb 16
I hate the habit as well. Not a good picture at all
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@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
9 Feb 16
Believe me, it wasn't a very good sight at all. I am sure she was trying to draw attention to herself, but the fact of it is, it was all negative, and that isn't good at all. She can't expect others to respect her, when she doesn't respect herself.
