Why cant people just say it!!

@ricki_911 (18711)
Toronto, Ontario
February 27, 2016 11:16pm CST
I was seeing a guy recently, it wasn't anything official. Well his habit changed he suddenly wouldn't talk to me unless I initiate it and then would not pick he things. Well I could of told you he was seeing someone else but the fact he wouldn't say anything to me. How difficult if you found someone else instead of trying to ignore the person, or pretending like its nothing?. So I just kept on going, until finally a few nights ago he said well I have to tell you I am seeing someone. I said well you think I am clueless the fact he wouldn't say anything is just childish and ignorant. So I simple replied now how hard was that to just say it. He hasn't stopped texted me asking me why Id say that and how I knew he was seeing someone else. Why does he need someone to justify it?
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• United States
28 Feb 16
It is quite obvious if the guy isn't interested anymore so why was he trying to lead you on. Gosh! Guys! And then you knew and now he's questioning you? His lost!
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@ricki_911 (18711)
• Toronto, Ontario
28 Feb 16
Exactly, I knew and he had said in a conversation before that he was very open and be honest. Well his right here is not lol. Well why doses he need justification, he said it and I was fine with it (was absolutely no shock).
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• United States
28 Feb 16
@ricki_911 But it's such a shock to him that you know he's seeing someone!
@ricki_911 (18711)
• Toronto, Ontario
28 Feb 16
@infatuatedbby I cant figure out why he even cares least I wouldn't. He keeps asking me how I knew and explain it. Well he said it and I didn't eat him alive. But he cant figure out how I knew. Well when he starts posting all this sappy make you want to puke quotes, then stops talking to you unless you message him get the hint.
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@MGjhaud (20749)
• Philippines
28 Feb 16
that simply sucks.. i prefer being honest with my feelings and if i start liking someone else, id rather sort things out with my current partner. the respect should still be there even if its not working out well with you and him.
@ricki_911 (18711)
• Toronto, Ontario
28 Feb 16
That is my point and the fact he repeatedly said that he wants someone to be honest yet he is not.
@MGjhaud (20749)
• Philippines
29 Feb 16
@ricki_911 its a good thing he's gone now. hes not deserving..
@ricki_911 (18711)
• Toronto, Ontario
29 Feb 16
@MGjhaud I completely agree. He will just grab at any girl that walks by.
@Lucky15 (33450)
• Philippines
28 Feb 16
Aww. He can not just pretend that it is nothing. Sigh
@ricki_911 (18711)
• Toronto, Ontario
28 Feb 16
I know why not be honest and say so. Probably just wanted to make sure this other girl stayed
@GardenGerty (95522)
• Marion, Kansas
28 Feb 16
Simply because he feels guilty. He has to know what gave him away.
@ricki_911 (18711)
• Toronto, Ontario
28 Feb 16
If in this case we went on a handful of dates, and was over the last couple months. He was one of these clingy, text eeveryday, and trying to spend every minute together. Nice guy, but I am not a person like that. A week or so ago he simple just stopped texting first I was like maybe he is busy, but then his answers were vague. He is pretty stupid for then adding me to facebook and posting a pile of I am so happy and found someone. So I really I am a person who will tell someone, and expect the same back. How difficult can it be, and yes I think he feels guilty that he acted this way, and thought I wouldn't notice.
@scheng1 (24815)
• Singapore
28 Feb 16
If my friend treats me this way, I would have stopped talking to her long ago. It is all right if she does not want to tell me, but not right that she avoids me or stops talking to me.
@ricki_911 (18711)
• Toronto, Ontario
28 Feb 16
The fact it is the coward way out and not saying so. I think then they will walk all over you. They are afraid of rejection and reaction.