Its scary to be alone

Philippines
March 17, 2016 8:07am CST
Being an independent woman , I always thought that I can live with or without a partner in life because I know I can still survive. But, today's event at work made me realize that maybe its a good thing to have a partner or even just a child of my own to take care of me when I get sick or to help me if ever I get into financial trouble becuase I am not rich. At work, I have a colleague that is already a spinster and she needs to be admitted for possible IJ catheter insertion and hemodialysis but the problem is her finances is not doing well and she dont have relatives to take care of her and support her needs. So,her friends took the initiative to get her admitted in the hospital. With that my other co workers were telling me to go find a partner already , or if I dont want to get married then just gave birth and have a child so I will have someone when I grow old. I told them I dont have the financial capability to raise a child of my own and they told me that money will show up . I do recognize that I might end up being alone in this world as I am very dedicated to my family. But who knows I might find him someday or maybe I am destined to be alone but still it is scary to think of the possibilities when you really need someone to be with you at a certain time.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
17 Mar 16
The same applies if you are a single childless man.
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• Philippines
5 Apr 16
True but you know how they say about women that the clock would be ticking if you passed the calendar days. Hehehe I mean you will be put on high risk if you get pregnant over 30 years of age.
@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
17 Mar 16
Well, I also thought about having a child of my own without a wife. But then, it is so idealistic and thinking it will never happen. Unless, if I adopted a child.
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@Marcyaz (35316)
• United States
17 Mar 16
Family is there to help in times of need and you don't need a partner for that but it is nice to have someone by your side. Of course you would also have friends who would be there for you.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
5 Apr 16
Time will come when someone whom you feel like sharing your whole life with for the rest of your life will come . It's scary indeed to grow old without someone beside to take care of you .
• Indonesia
5 Apr 16
Yeah, have someone to rely on when you are in bottom end will be nice and uplifting.
@Lazyblogs (494)
• Chandigarh, India
17 Mar 16
Its better to find good friends but if love happens for you there is nothing better than that
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
17 Mar 16
We never know when we can have partners in life, it's in God's hand and He'll give it to us at the right time. God has a plan for you, friend.