On Line Dating

@delyaj30 (615)
Quezon City, Philippines
March 19, 2016 5:37am CST
It's been a while since i joined this dating site. Every guy who message me always ask for my skype, viber or other means of communications even my cell phone number as soon. Of course i didn't give my account and i am turn off by their request. I didn't want to be a mean person but, is it right to ask those accounts without making friend first with me? I admit that i am searching, I think i'm still young at heart to find a new love since i been a widow for long time, and i also want to be happy again, i need a companion , someone to talk with, and just someone to be by my side in times of longings. But the way this guys approach me, its a big turn off. I want a guy to message me first in my inbox and if i found him sincere and gain his trust , i think that's the time i am ready to chat him with cam, Am i right ?
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@LadyDuck (157833)
• Switzerland
19 Mar 16
You are surely right, do not give your number or your email immediately. You need to chat first, so you can understand if you are interested or not in the guy. This is a serious matter.
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@delyaj30 (615)
• Quezon City, Philippines
19 Mar 16
yes @LadyDuck, we need to be wise in making a decision specially serious matters
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@LadyDuck (157833)
• Switzerland
19 Mar 16
@delyaj30 I agree, I fear that too many are around only to have a little fun, that is not good.
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@delyaj30 (615)
• Quezon City, Philippines
22 Mar 16
@LadyDuck i am not looking for fun either and i thank God for giving me this gift of discernment that i may know who are real. serious or not
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@ida123 (6267)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
19 Mar 16
It's up to you friend, if what you think is good then go on. For me, your decision is right that if you find someone that is sincere and can be trusted, then go. You have the right to be happy and you're still young.
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@delyaj30 (615)
• Quezon City, Philippines
19 Mar 16
thank you my friend for your support
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@salonga (28020)
• Philippines
22 Mar 16
Good that you are being very careful. I know at least 2 friends who were able to get good partners in life through online dating but I know a lot who did not have the same good fortune.
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@delyaj30 (615)
• Quezon City, Philippines
22 Mar 16
yes, some are lucky enough to find their partner on line, its not about money, but pure love or friendships that may lead for something deeper relationships
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@salonga (28020)
• Philippines
22 Mar 16
@delyaj30 Exactly and i hope you find one that meets this.
@Shavkat (62794)
• Philippines
19 Mar 16
I think there is no harm making friends online. But I am not fond of chatting with strangers. Unless if the person is being introduced by a common friend.
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@delyaj30 (615)
• Quezon City, Philippines
19 Mar 16
i think that is the best way to find a date, but i want men from other countries, no offend to my fellowmen. so, i need to take the risks in finding if i would be lucky enough, lol
@rakski (16392)
• Philippines
24 Mar 16
yes, i agree with you. Also it is better be careful than be sorry later.
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@Lazyblogs (499)
• Chandigarh, India
20 Mar 16
Yes i think you have to trust him and then only go on with skyping
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• Delhi, India
19 Mar 16
Sounds nice. Good luck.
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@rina110383 (24134)
19 Mar 16
Yes, you are doing the right thing. In fact, under the Safe Practices Page of any dating site, users are discouraged from giving those information.
@MGjhaud (20737)
• Philippines
19 Mar 16
i guess its fine to give it out, its not your home address anyway. if you want, create a new skype account just for people who wants it from that dating site. you have to go that far sometimes if you are the ones looking.
@jaboUK (54011)
• United Kingdom
19 Mar 16
Of course you are right. You must be very careful especially at first. My sister found her husband online but they chatted a long time before they saw each other. They got married last year (they are both in their 70s) and are very happy. I hope you find love too.