Are You A Legal Wife?

The legal wife is always right.
@cacay1 (32915)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
March 20, 2016 8:51am CST
Sorry to raise this question. I am just curious for this day, I saw two women fighting with all their might in the mall.They were showing their scandalous behavior.They are shouting and scratching their faces and pulling their hair.They are so wild and extremely angry. Nobody dares to stop them. The legal wife is so brave like a tiger.The legal wife shouted at the other, " I am the legal wife" plus some bad words came out from her mouth.She continued shouting: " If you won't leave my husband, I will kill you." The other woman just looked at the floor, speechless. It was learned that the husband of the other woman works as a sea man . She has another illegal affair with a married man. She cannot be trusted. What do you think, is she worth to be loved by her sea man husband? What will happen to her if her husband knows about her infidelity?.
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@Missmwngi (9812)
• Nairobi, Kenya
20 Mar 16
I have always sworn to myself that i can never fight another lady if i knew she and my hubby are together,i would rather pick myself up and leave respectively,never to be seen again. If he can cheat on me he is not worth me fighting anyone
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@cacay1 (32915)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Mar 16
@Missmwngi, Your idea is great.Why put the self in anger that may hurt the feeling more.Let them go to hell should it happen.
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@Missmwngi (9812)
• Nairobi, Kenya
20 Mar 16
@cacay1 That is it. Plus if someone did love you he would not go to get another but they would respect you as the wife. In addition in most situations it is the man who approach the woman and such women may not be having any idea if the man is married
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@RasmaSandra (17530)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20 Mar 16
@cacay1 My opinion is that if you are married to one person you stay with that person. If you have the urge to meet someone else it's time to end the marriage.
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@Marcyaz (35670)
• United States
20 Mar 16
I would guess her husband would leave her. I don't understand why the legal wife is fighting with the other woman when it is her husband she should be fighting with and she should leave him.
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@cacay1 (32915)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Mar 16
@Marcyaz, The bystanders also wonder why the wife exhaust her energy when she is a legal wife, she could sue them to court if got the evidence. The husband of this wife will surely leave her if found cheating him.
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@Marcyaz (35670)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@cacay1 Cheating is never a good thing to do as there are other ways to opt out of a bad marriage.
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@cacay1 (32915)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Mar 16
@Marcyaz That is true, why not confer with the husband or wife that love gone and arrange both of them legal separation, than cheat.
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• Philippines
21 Mar 16
Though what she did was wrong, she probably longing for her husband that she just tried to do it with other men. I've seen a video of that a while before. this is the disadvantage if you are married and the spouse choose to work abraod, the temptation to cheat is really strong.
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@cacay1 (32915)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Mar 16
@Letranknight, That is why a wife must keep herself busy and focus on her work and responsibility as a mother.Also, distance does not matter for we can chat , text, thru Facebook and others. Maybe she is longing of another thing, but she should be strong.
• United States
20 Mar 16
I have already told my husband the first time you cheat I'm gone. Of course, he wouldn't do it but the fact still remains. She should be mad at the woman but moreson her husband because he is the one who went astray from hia marriage.
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@cacay1 (32915)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Mar 16
@The DemonicAngel, I think the legal wife is madly in love with her cheater husband.We do not know if they reconciled.Life becomes shaky if someone cheats marriage.
@Missmwngi (9812)
• Nairobi, Kenya
20 Mar 16
And as we condemn the lady we should also point fingers at the cheating man since he is no better
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@cacay1 (32915)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Mar 16
@Missmwngi, If I were the wife, no more arguments, I have to leave my husband.
@rina110383 (24134)
20 Mar 16
Assuming the other woman is indeed having an affair with a married man: No, because of her illegal and immoral acts. The woman might not anymore receive support from her seaman husband.
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@cacay1 (32915)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Mar 16
@rina110383, That would surely happen if the parents of the husband and some relatives know her cheat.She would surely become money less.
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@zebra2222 (5157)
• United States
20 Mar 16
She might end up being tossed in the sea. She is definitely in the wrong.
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@cacay1 (32915)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Mar 16
@zebra2222, We are so sure of that.her husband's work is not easy and being far is nostalgic.her husband might do something bad to her.What a shame.Thanks.
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@slund2041 (3378)
• United States
20 Mar 16
She might be facing a divorce. Yes, I am legally married.
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@cacay1 (32915)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Mar 16
@slund2041, I am so happy for you my dear legally and happily married to your man of your dreams.There is no divorce in Philippines. It might be legal separation through court.
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@slund2041 (3378)
• United States
21 Mar 16
@cacay1 Oh wow! I thought all countries allowed divorce? I learned something new today.
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@cacay1 (32915)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Mar 16
@slund2041 hehehe, That was oftentimes brought to senate to legalize divorce, but the churches always participate.85 million plus Filipinos are Roman Catholic, the remainder, spreads.
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@SIMPLYD (79716)
• Philippines
21 Mar 16
The other woman deserved that beating from the Legal wife . If i were the Legal wife , i will report her to her seaman husband .
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@cacay1 (32915)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Mar 16
@SIMPLYD, I think, the parents of the husband sooner or later know.KARMA to the cheater wife.
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@sjvg1976 (18386)
• Delhi, India
21 Mar 16
That's not good. I think her husband won't accept her. Once you are married you are supposed to be loyal with your partner.
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@cacay1 (32915)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Mar 16
@sjvg1976, I wondered why there are husbands and wives who cannot feel the pain of their unfaithfulness.
@Corbin5 (106277)
• United States
20 Mar 16
The husband is the one to attack in this situation.
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@cacay1 (32915)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
21 Mar 16
@Corbin5, Usually men are not vocal.They just keep the hurt. Pitiful sea man husband.