Separation/Divorce? Trust?

@CodryP (21)
Bucharest, Romania
March 22, 2016 4:36am CST
I left my husband on November 17 2014 , I got married with him on 22nd of March 2014 . I left because he was abusive and for some reason I still love him. I know he's a good man but his distrust in me has poisoned his mind till this day. I wanted to get back to him, we were even talking about that on new years eve but he changed his mind. 1 and 1/2 years later still separated but not divorced. How come beliefs can destroy something so fast?
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7 responses
@miniam (9236)
• Bern, Switzerland
22 Mar 16
l hope you will work out what`s best for both of you.
@Lazyblogs (498)
• Chandigarh, India
22 Mar 16
Somethings are not meant to be
@cupkitties (7294)
• United States
22 Mar 16
Funny he distrusts you so much when the person who isn't being honest here is him. Unless he has some legit reason not to trust you? Well, I wish you both the best of luck. A marriage counselor will probably be helpful as well as a psychiatrist for him.
• Pensacola, Florida
22 Mar 16
You should seek marriage counseling.
@LdeL0318 (6445)
• Philippines
22 Mar 16
I hope you'll be able to settle everything. Both of you have your own reasons but I guess you never did talk to each other prior to the separation. Giving second chances are not bad at all.
@karjatwala (1133)
• Pune, India
22 Mar 16
Instead of communicating with him directly, get an in between. someone who you both will trust. Hopefully that should solve your problem and get you back your husband.
@Sreekala (23435)
• India
22 Mar 16
Trust is the key in every relationship, without trust it is difficult to continue. I agree, if some one distrust without a valid reasons, it hurt. Some people are doubtful, may be it is a serious problem and need experts advise. Hope you will solve the problems and get along again.