Effective Communication between Children and their Parents

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These days , we see that most of the parents are highly discontended with their children, they complain about everything from the children's food habit to their behaviour, parents and kids both have some serious unsolved issues between them. The parents generally thinks that they are elder than their childen naturally they are more experienced, wiser and smarter than the Kids who should listen to them and obey their every single word. It's true that Parents are experienced , they learned and still learning so many things from their immediate environment and outside of the family as well, but why they can't remember one simple fact that their children are not confined inside the house too , they go to school, study different courses/subjects, interact with teachers, meet new friends, watch T.V.s, access internet they are also in same way learning everyday from different sources, they are also getting experienced, becoming smarter, at the same time they are not only just learning and applying but also have stored doubts/queries about those, they want to clear those things out with their parents as the parents are closest of all, kids spend great amount of time of the day with their parents, therefore parents need to develop effective communication or interaction with their children, they need to discuss every single issue with their children objectively with open/frank gesture, giving the children clear ideas and reasons what they need to do , what they need to avoid rather than commanding, criticizing and being inflexible/rigid towards them as it brings nothing but ignites permanent conflicts between both of them.