Love is still a Strange thing to me...

Philippines
March 31, 2016 9:35am CST
Never had anyone in my life. Maybe because I am so ugly and no one likes someone who had an ugly face and a bad attitude. So that is why it is so strange to me to see two people falling in love and get married and have a family of their own. Two different and people living together with love and share the same bed and share the same house and everything around them. I wonder how it makes them so happy and do not feel any uncomfortable moments? Do you feel the same thing or you already know what's the answer? Wants to share?
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• Westland, Michigan
31 Mar 16
Trust me, I am no good looking guy (look at my picture), but I got lucky and met my wife 26 years ago. You learn what makes each other tick and what subjects, etc. you need to not discuss. Yes, you do know how they will react or what there answer will be, but that is ok with me. I know my wife's strengths and weaknesses and she know mine. I believe the hard part of being married so long is keeping the spark in the relationship. We do things for each other that still surprises each other. I personally think that the day that you do not call your significant other your best friend, is the day you have lost it. My wife is my best friend and being married so long, we have learned how to keep the spark in the relationship.
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@DianneN (81890)
• United States
31 Mar 16
I believe true love comes to all.
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@Lucky15 (33720)
• Philippines
31 Mar 16
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• Philippines
1 May 16
Well, why don't you try it yourself to find out. there's no use asking for experience, but as for getting to know people, that you can ask for advise.
@kaka135 (14066)
• Malaysia
13 Apr 16
True love is unconditional, no matter how we look or how we behave. Don't be so harsh to yourself. I guess it's really hard to explain, as when true love comes, you just know it. When I was younger and still single, I was wondering how it's like when falling in love and what the differences are between "love" and "like" or "affection". Then when I met someone, I just knew it's love, and it's different from those affections. There might still be some uncomfortable moments when two different people staying together, but they will learn to solve all the challenges together slowly. It's the same as when a child joins the family, there will need to be some adjustments as well. Things will not be the same as before anymore, but everyone is willing to put efforts into it and make the environment suitable for everyone. Again, I do not think love is only limited between a man and a woman, it can also be extended to other people, animals or nature.
@Lucky15 (33720)
• Philippines
31 Mar 16
aww, don't be s hard on yourself :(