when friends hate you

@artupe (83)
Hyderabad, India
April 5, 2016 4:15am CST
when your friends hate you for small reason it is very disgusting world to call him/her as your friend. many times everyone do some mistakes even you don't no and many times it likes as you have made some mistakes.. why it happened in friendship? what are the main reason and how to avoid the mistakes
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@crossbones27 (48434)
• Mojave, California
5 Apr 16
People are petty and cannot see past something that should not really make them angry. We are all different though and perceive things differently.
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@artupe (83)
• Hyderabad, India
5 Apr 16
@crossbones27 ya its right that everyone are different but friends have to share these all thinks with each other then we can call them friend.. am i right
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@newest1 (295)
6 Apr 16
@artupe share these all thinks with each other is good option
@Shavkat (137215)
• Philippines
5 Apr 16
If they do this, they are not real friends. I would just push myself away and ignore them.
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@artupe (83)
• Hyderabad, India
6 Apr 16
@shavkat i rhink i have to push myself out too
• United States
7 Apr 16
I think for the ones that annoy me, I just stay away from them, I find that friendships change over times, people change, I have a friend I didn't hear from for over 10 years, she got married and only had time for her husband .I started hearing from her a lot now, she really wants the friendship we once had.
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@artupe (83)
• Hyderabad, India
15 Apr 16
ya friendship changes over time... right
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@cessy_08 (306)
• Dublin, Ireland
5 Apr 16
I guess it just means that you are not really friends after all! I happened to me before and it even resulted to public humiliation (he said some really offensive words to me in front of other people) so even if we talked and said sorry, I just treated him as an acquaintance and nothing more. Real friends respect you and even if things get bad, he/she will never try to hurt you and will do things to save not destroy the friendship.
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@artupe (83)
• Hyderabad, India
5 Apr 16
@cessy_08 we are friends from last 6 years i always try to ignore these things but they all are the same... hate friends now
@Dextoi (1845)
• Philippines
7 Apr 16
Friends may come to a quarrelsome times but if you really are friends, you can still makeup to it. I think it's pretty normal when two friends have a fight... after all, it is not always all the time that you have the same views in life. What is important is that you and your friend would lower your voice down, talk it over, avoid what caused the conflict and forgive each other... that's it
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@artupe (83)
• Hyderabad, India
15 Apr 16
@desktoi good idea
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@imharvy (14)
• India
5 Apr 16
people saw the things and our deeds the way they want to. so if they don't like it, it goes wrong and if it goes like their way, it is right so just don't rly on someone too much just listen to your heart, take time and if they are right for you they probably will come to you. they can't hate you
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@artupe (83)
• Hyderabad, India
6 Apr 16
@imharvy i have to take some avoidance from all friends... it will be good i think
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@artupe (83)
• Hyderabad, India
15 Apr 16
@imharvy hmm you are almost right
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• India
6 Apr 16
@artupe if u feel u need some time alone. Do it. Also change is must nd new experiences r somehow better. So spend the time like u want to. Everything gonna be jst fine in some time. Till then do whtever u want to do man....o woman..hehe
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@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
7 Apr 16
Just move on. Forgive them and forget. Maybe they are not real friends they are just someone you know and someone you just met to spice your life. Cheer up!
• Philippines
15 Apr 16
@artupe true. But we can forgive them
@artupe (83)
• Hyderabad, India
15 Apr 16
we can't forget friends this is the problem
@dazzledlady (1618)
• Philippines
5 Apr 16
Well a true friend would never turn his or bqck on you if the mistakes are little . They may be hurt or express their disappointment but they will still be there for you.
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@artupe (83)
• Hyderabad, India
6 Apr 16
@dazzledlady their are no true friends anywhere because no one no what is the mean of friendship exactly
@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
5 Apr 16
I tell people to leave me alone. I ain't for all the drama anymore.
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@artupe (83)
• Hyderabad, India
6 Apr 16
@carebear29 thats good option
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@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
5 Apr 16
Sometimes people get on your nerves and you get on theirs. You wonder why you still hang around them. Sometimes you keep them around because there's no one else to hang around at that time. If this persists, you have to let them go and find other people that you get along with.
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@artupe (83)
• Hyderabad, India
6 Apr 16
@db20747 ya i have to let them go... you are right
@newest1 (295)
6 Apr 16
@artupe try to ignore it all
@artupe (83)
• Hyderabad, India
7 Apr 16
@newest1 i will definitely try to ignore
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@newest1 (295)
7 Apr 16
@artupe try at once
• Zamboanga City, Philippines
6 Apr 16
That's not your real/true friends. Friends don't judge on that way, I prefer those friends that they will tell you that "This is wrong" rather than they don't tell you right away or backstab something. Friends do help each other. Friends do share problems. and Friends do have respect one another.
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@artupe (83)
• Hyderabad, India
7 Apr 16
@sanders01 ya friends have to share everything with each other