GRRRR People On Fb Annoy Me Sometimes !!!!

Montreal, Quebec
April 18, 2016 1:11am CST
Okay so this is abit of a rant, so if it runs a little long, I apologize in advance. I don't understand WHY people think its OKAY to just READ a private messege, and then ignore it like as if it was never read ! Especially now that Fb has that feature that shows you when someone has read your messege and at what time. Like really, if you don't have time to talk, or don't want to talk, just don't open up the messege, its way less insulting than seeing that someone has read my messege, and doesn't reply to it, but yet can go on fb and share things, post status updates, comment on things, etc... that makes me so upset. It makes me feel like as if I'm disturbing the person, or they don't really wanna talk to me, like really, be honest and say you don't wanna talk, don't just ignore the messege. I swear tonight its like 5 people that I can think of offhand who did that to me, and yet if I go even longer than 15/20 mins from the time I read the msg to the time I reply to them, I get cussed off. How is that fair ? And OMG,..... Game requests..... When I specifically say that I don't play certain games, so stop sending requests, and certain people send like 5 or 6 requests A DAY ! Its gotten so bad that ya'll should see my block list for games..... its so long. And finally....groups.... I don't know why facebook even changed the way people add others to groups, it used to be that you would send someone an invite and IF that person wanted to join said group, they would do it themselves. NOW however, someone just has to click "add to group" and boom, you're automatically a member, whether you want to be or not. What annoys you about facebook ? (p.s...if you think you can think of better tags for this discussion, let me know, its all I could think of at 2am lol)
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4 responses
• Canada
20 Apr 16
i'm guilty of reading messages and not replying right away but with my anxiety and disorder sometimes i need to weather a storm before i can respond, i sometimes open my messages even if i am feeling blah and not wanting to face the world cause knowing it's there and unopened bothers me and raises my anxiety i need to know what it says, what if it's cussing me out, what if i did something wrong again, etc. My disorder plays havoc with me. so if i am one of those that do this to you sis i apolozie. it's not to be rude intentionally. Plus my homepage is facebook and well i leave the computer on and have 4 soon to be 5 cats to walk across my keyboard and open windows and crash programs lol i do agree with you on the groups issue though for sure. and i hate this whole message request thing. like seriously fb stop messing with things grrr
• Montreal, Quebec
21 Apr 16
No sis, I understand your situation, but I'm talking about people like our brother for example.
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• Canada
22 Apr 16
@Chispa514 hahah oh yess he is bad for not getting back to ppl :P
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• Montreal, Quebec
23 Apr 16
@MRS_Taylor yes, especially when its something he knows he might be in trouble for lol
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@xstitcher (30351)
• Petaluma, California
20 Apr 16
It bugs me when people randomly add me to groups, too.
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• Montreal, Quebec
23 Apr 16
I always ask people first before I add them to anything
@MGjhaud (23243)
• Philippines
18 Apr 16
they say adding you to various unwanted groups is a virus. my nephew added me to several groups and i asked him about it, he said he didnt.
• Montreal, Quebec
20 Apr 16
Oh I don't mean that type of adding, I know that exsists, but I'm talking about the friends who just go around and add you to groups they are in just because they are in it, or because they THINK its a group you might like without even talking to you about it first
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@MGjhaud (23243)
• Philippines
20 Apr 16
oh it was done intentionally.. sorry bout that but yeah, same thing -- i just leave the group right away.
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• Canada
18 Apr 16
I'm not on facebook but when I was ohhhhhhhhhhhhh the game requests the game requests the game requests, it was so annoying, especially since people knew I can't play them because my internet was too slow and they would never load, I think they were sending me them for fun because of this...which okay I'll admit was probably a bit funny because people like my mock rants...but still, it was kinda annoying:).
• Montreal, Quebec
20 Apr 16
Wow, that's rare to find someone who actually doesn't want to be on facebook anymore. You sir, are a rare breed lol. Yea, I've made statuses telling people (without actually mentioning any names to not embarass them), not to send game requests because I don't play, but yet they send it anyway like as if they think its a way to see how far they can go before they get under my skin