~I Don't Want Or Need A Part Time Friend~
By Jennifer
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
Valdosta, Georgia
May 4, 2016 9:30pm CST
Your either there for me and I am there for you...or your not. You either always want my friendship or you don't ever want it. It's either there or it's not. I don't want a part time friend. Another words, I don't want to exist in your life only when it's convenient for you.
Do you have someone in your life that does that to you? I do and I'm no longer contacting the person anymore at all, not putting my time and energy into someone who doesn't cherish our relationship...
It is in God's hands now.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@Jstory07 Yes exactly and it's not right at all. I don't like how some people are, I really don't
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
5 May 16
Yeah and i have stopped communicating with that person anymore. I don't want to be used and abused.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
5 May 16
@LovingMyBabies It's just sad when we find out that we were needed only when it's convenient for them.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@toniganzon It is devastating to me to feel unimportant and used the way she's made me feel.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@Toniganzon Yeah I have cried over this part time friend more than I can count because for a while she was like a sister to me. =(
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
5 May 16
@LovingMyBabies That's a shame . I don't have those problems because I have no close friends.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@Mstickle You guessed right! I did tell her, she apologized and told me things would be different when she got back from vacation and she's still doing the same thing.
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@celticeagle (159606)
• Boise, Idaho
5 May 16
It is tough to find good friends. I have had a few, had to through one back. LOL My BFF I have known for fifty years. She is a dear. Wish she lived here instead of in Oklahoma. But, she is with her family there.
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@celticeagle (159606)
• Boise, Idaho
6 May 16
@LovingMyBabies ...I had one(have written about her on here) let me down too. I know how it is.
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@celticeagle It is really hard to find them. The sad thing is I thought she was one and had to learn the hard way that she wasn't. I'm sorry your friend lives far from you-that stinks. =(
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@marguicha (215993)
• Chile
5 May 16
I don´t like that either. I have cut out of my life those so called friends.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@Cacay1 Yeah I think I'm going to have to do that with her but it breaks my heart.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
6 May 16
@LovingMyBabies , Yeah, that is really what to feel.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
5 May 16
Loved it. Yes, that is how things should be. Though I am fickle minded and at times get swayed by the kind of help that he/she needs from me (I mean the severity of it). But in normal cases, I dont return back to anyone who I sense is trying to use me.
*on another context, I do hope that this is not the same person who was avoiding you (as you mentioned on one of your posts some days back).
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@thesids Thank you! This "part time friend" goes to my church. She was always hanging around when she needed advice about her marriage issues. Now that their mending things I don't exist anymore.
I don't have time for that in my life these days...I have enough going on.
@nanette64 (20364)
• Fairfield, Texas
5 May 16
I'm pretty much a loner @LovingMyBabies . I've learned all too well not to count on anybody.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@nanette64 Yeah sometimes you have to be because you can only count on God and yourself.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
5 May 16
i am a friend in deed and not in need. i want to be friends with others who don't see me as their savior in their difficult times.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@ridingbet I wanted both from her. I don't mind if she needed me but I also wanted her time when she wasn't in need of anything from me.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
5 May 16
No I dont. I have so many people that call me friend because they only want from me.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@andriaperry I'm sorry people use you like that. I am feeling used by her now too.
@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@Dena91 Yeah, that is how I was feeling before I decided-No More! You have a blessed day too. =)
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
5 May 16
I have been contacted by friends that I have not seen or talked to in years. Why now? Because they need my help. 
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@Daljinder Yeah I don't like those kinds of people at all.
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@Sweetsona (300)
• India
5 May 16
I would definitely agree with you that u did the right thing. If people are not there for you always, there is no point continuing. U give ur best efforts and expect the same from the other one as well.. You deserve better
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@Sweetsona Thank you. I do agree, there isn't much point. I have told her how I am feeling and she promised things would change but their not.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
5 May 16
@ivysayshi Yeah it's hurtful.
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