Friday feels like it never ends

@cintol (11261)
United States
May 6, 2016 7:24pm CST
I start my Friday's at 6:30 AM for my daycare kids, then when they all leave I fix dinner. When that is over I get dressed and head out to my overnight caregiver job to spend the evening at an elderly seniors home to keep watch over him in the night. Get off at 8 AM in the morning, come home, shower and make my one hour trip to Loveland to spend the day with my mom. Makes for a very long two days and by the time I get back to bed it has been around 39 hours without sleep. It makes for a very long end to my week but I have to say I wouldn't have it any other way. I love both my jobs but I am ready for a little break. Do you have nights when you work like this?
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@mom210 (9036)
• United States
11 May 16
Sounds like you need a weekend away, perhaps you can work something out and get somebody to cover one weekend for ya.
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@mom210 (9036)
• United States
13 May 16
@cintol how did you find that kind of work? Do have some kind of training? It is something that I might like.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
13 May 16
@mom210 Kim, if you enjoy taking care of people you would definitely enjoy it. I work for Visiting Angels and all you really need is knowing how to care for elderly with dementia, stroke, etc. I helped take care of my dad when he had Parkinson's, and just personal cases like that. I applied and was interviewed and hired with in a week. They give me as many or few hours as I want. It works very well for me and there are a lot of caregiving companies out there who are always hiring. I was looking for a job and couldn't find one and one day it just popped up on my screen and said they were hiring. Look in job sites under caregivers and you should see a lot in your area.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
13 May 16
I wish I could but it will be a few mths down the road for that. I am hoping we can plan a get away around Nov for a weekend at least, just have to work till then.
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@JudyEv (325878)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 May 16
That is a very long period without sleep. You must be exhausted at the end of it.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
14 May 16
Its a very long time, I just got home and its like a second wind kicks in. I will take my shower when I am done here and then head for my drive to Loveland to spend the day with my mom. I will be good and ready for sleep by tonight.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
16 May 16
@JudyEv Yes, I always have to drive on Sat. morning when I get done with my over nighter but I do good with that. I slept like a log last night, went to bed at 9:30 and got up at 9:30 this morning. I never even heard my husband turn off the TV
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@JudyEv (325878)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 May 16
@cintol I hope your long day doesn't end with a driving stint. That wouldn't be the best idea.
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@dodo19 (47082)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
7 May 16
That must be hard. I've never worked nights like that. My sister-in-law does. She does a similar thing as you. She stays with an elderly couple overnight, and makes sure if anything happens, she's there. She studies and got a nursing assistant certificate, so she knows what to do. Even just working 5 nights a week, she's finding it hard. She usually works from 9 PM to 9 AM.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
7 May 16
It is hard work, I work for Visiting Angels. My shifts are similar as I work 8 pm to 8 am.
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@dodo19 (47082)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
7 May 16
@cintol it can't be an easy job. But I guess it's worth it if you enjoy it.
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
7 May 16
Not any more but yes, I have been there. Just be sure to take care of yourself or you won't be useful to anyone. We women tend to run ourselves to the ground. !!
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@BelleStarr (61047)
• United States
7 May 16
@cintol I think it is, we are bred to think we are super women and luckily it is pretty true!!
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
7 May 16
That is a true statement Belle, why are we the last ones to always think of ourselves. Guess that must have been bred into us huh.
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@sol_cee (38223)
• Philippines
18 May 16
Is Loveland an imaginary place?
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
18 May 16
Nope, its real
13 May 16
I'm amazed you can manage a Friday like that! ...hoping you sleep a LOT Saturday/ Sunday:)!!
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
13 May 16
Thank you Robert, no sleep again this weekend for me until Sat. night. I am up now for my 40 hr run again but next weekend I am hoping to be able to sleep a little more.
13 May 16
@cintol Enjoy that sleep when it comes!
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@GardenGerty (157596)
• United States
11 May 16
I refused to do the overnight jobs, but with my last job I would work sometimes sixty five hours per week. While we still have our parents we do what we can to be with them.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
13 May 16
This is true, I will do what is necessary to spend time with my mom and work. She will be released from Rehab on the 19th and will then move with my sister which is 3 hrs from me. I won't be able to spend much time with her then.
@Teep11 (7674)
• United States
7 May 16
A lot of work. Both include caregiver. One includes caring for children and the other for an elderly client. You're doing an excellent job. You should pat yourself on the back.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
7 May 16
Thank you, I think this is what I was meant to do with my life and I enjoy it so guess its better than a 9-5 I would hate going to every day right.
@Juliaacv (48522)
• Canada
7 May 16
That is a lot of awake time all at once! I cannot pull all nighter's or alter my sleep times because I have a seizure disorder and it will come into play if I do that. My hubs used to work all 3 shifts, and he could always sleep during the day. You've got your priorities right spending time with your Mom, its too bad that she wasn't closer. When you get to bed, I hope that you rest well.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
7 May 16
That must be hard Julia to have to go through those. I would sleep regularly as well if I had that to deal with. I won't miss spending time with my mom, I will miss her a lot when she is 3 hrs from me.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
7 May 16
Can't you nap at all during the night if the old people are sleeping? I used to look after a disabled person in her own home for a few nights a week, but I could sleep if she didn't want anything. I had a baby alarm which alerted me. That's a heck of a long time for you to go without sleep.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
7 May 16
This gentleman doesn't sleep, he gets up all night long and comes to sit in the living room and since he is a fall risk I have to stay awake. It is a long time and exhausting after a day with the kids but I don't mind helping the elderly. Its really taking a toll on my body though and I enough of those already. lol
@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
7 May 16
I'm retired now but I remember weeks when I worked more hours than I slept. But, like you, I loved my job and I didn't mind all the extra hours. :)
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
7 May 16
Can not take that long without sleep
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
7 May 16
When I am awake for so long, it seems like I get a second wind in the morning once I take a shower
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@AnneEJ (4917)
• Dollard-Des-Ormeaux, Quebec
7 May 16
I don't think I could handle that, too long to go without sleep. I always had a day job, for which I am thankful.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
7 May 16
Seems I have always worked nights and never really realized it before but I was younger than. Hopefully I can pick up some day shifts once summer comes and I won't have 3 of the daycare children.
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@Dena91 (15895)
• United States
7 May 16
I've done that and am pretty sure I couldn't anymore. Age has a way of doing that to you!! The last time I pulled an allnighter was last fall when my mom in law went into the hospital because she thought she had had a heart attack. I stayed with her overnight and didn't sleep but maybe 20-30 minutes. I found it hard to with the nurses coming in checking on her every little bit. Thankfully she didn't have a heart attack and when we brought her home the next day, I passed out and slept well. Hope you enjoy your visit with your Mom and rest when you get home. Have a blessed day
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
7 May 16
I know what you mean, I had to sleep in my dads hospital room one time when he was there, thats almost impossible. Thank you, hopefully I will sleep tonight
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@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
7 May 16
OH wow that's one busy night you got there.
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@carebear29 (31961)
• Wausau, Wisconsin
7 May 16
I feel you. My husband had off all week for paid vacation and it feels like forever. Lol.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
7 May 16
i hope i will not have an afternoon shift when my work resumes in July.
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