How much pressure on your shoulders?

May 11, 2016 11:17pm CST
First, I am a mom with a little baby, he just two-years-old, he plays here and there everyday, secend, I have to work everyday, my husband works in other city, I have to take care my baby when i come home,. I always fell tired. The family and work pressure are on my shoulders, I can't breath. Sometimes I think,why I had married ? for pressure? for self-abuse? I really miss the day when I am single. I just want to say I am a little and strong woman. Today, we all face different pressure, that is my pressure, what's about you?
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
12 May 16
I can understand how hard for you to take care of your child alone and meanwhile you have to work. Hopefully you and your husband can live together. It is not also helpful for you, but also good for your baby when he grows up.
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12 May 16
Yes,I think so, but not everything is as we think of
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
12 May 16
@phoenixontheway You have to make the best of the situation.
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13 May 16
@marlina I know,I try my best to do everything.
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@slayer08 (2377)
• Philippines
12 May 16
I would say - don't give up! we all have our crosses to bear and carry but the crosses we have are the ones which makes life meaningful. You feel this way now because every thing you do is all about the family and work plus your kid is too young so this is really the time that you really will be very exhausted. Motherhood is a blessing and being able to take care of your family the way you do is great - so good job! If I were you, I will relax and treat myself from time to time. Go see my friends, see a movie, read a book and have "me-time" that way you can still feel good and not too helpless.
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12 May 16
Thinks for your advice, I will try
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
12 May 16
The only pressure i put myself at the moment is having a successful business.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
12 May 16
@phoenixontheway Yes, it's almost there.
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12 May 16
Come on, I wish you success.
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
12 May 16
That is pressure but it is normal for a young working mother these days. Welcome to Mylot and I hope that you will find some comfort here.
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13 May 16
thank you very much.
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
15 May 16
being a parent is really a serious job. i should prepare for that.
@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
17 May 16
@phoenixontheway of course! but when it comes to money, you should be financially prepared.
18 May 16
@trivia79 yes, I am trying best to earn money now.
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16 May 16
yes,but not everything can be prepared.
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