Not back to myself but I've been keeping busy with genealogy.

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With everything going on here I've found myself needing something to keep my brain busy, so I started looking into my family tree. It has helped me keep my mind busy and from going into depression. It's something I've always been interested in, because my mom's family has this sordid past. My grandma's (my mom's mom) mom died when my grandma was still very little due to complications from a gallbladder surgery (from what I could read on the death certificate...doctors even back then had crappy handwriting), and that left behind my grandma and her 3 siblings with their dad, who about a year later was shot and killed by his best friend who accused my grandma's dad of running around with his wife in front of my grandma and her siblings. My grandma never fully recovered from witnessing it. My grandma and her siblings were then shipped off to her grandparents to be raised. Her grandfather was a reverend and his family founded a church in southern Ohio. It was just something I wanted to know more about. Anyway, no one really knew anything about my grandma's mom. They didn't know her birthday or her parents names, which I always found odd. On her death certificate all of that was written as unknown. How do you marry someone and not even know their parents names or birthday? My grandma's father was still alive when her mother died, he should have known that information, but it's all written as unknown. I did a lot of research based on various records and others family trees on ancestry, and finally found my great grandma's parents names, and I found out they were Quakers and there were even records from their meetings. I actually traced the family all the way to Ireland in the 1600s. I also did some digging on my dad's side. Much like my mom's mother my dad's mother also died when my grandma was young, not as young as my other grandma though I don't think, only her dad lived until 1981 and had later remarried and had a bunch of other children. I traced my dad's family all the way to Germany. It took me a long time to get somewhere out of the US with my dad's side as most of them came from Pennsylvania to Ohio, and they changed the spelling of their last name somewhere along the way. Ironically my last name was traced to Switzerland and not Germany (my last name is very German sounding), it was my dad's grandma's family that was traced to Germany. My mom's side came from Ireland sooner than my dad's side came from Germany and Switzerland. My dad's family made its way from Germany and Switzerland to PA, and my mom's side came from Ireland and mostly lived in the south until making their way to Ohio. It makes sense since my dad's side mostly resided in NW Ohio and my mom's side was all southern Ohio until some of them moved to NW Ohio in the 30s and 40s. I still don't know the reasons for why they moved out of the south or why my dad's family moved to Ohio, but I guess everyone back then had their reasons. I also managed to help my boyfriend find his father. Ever since I've been with my boyfriend he hasn't known much about his biological father besides his name and his place of birth, but that has never seemed to be enough, and he has always wanted to know, only to find nothing but brick walls. It seems his father has no real virtual trail, however today I finally found him. I know it's him based on some information his mom remembered about him. I managed to get his home address and phone number assuming he still resides in the same place and has the same number, I'm not sure what my boyfriend will do with it, but the point is he has it. My boyfriend has been searching for this information since his teens, and today I was able to find it for him. I'm glad that I have been accomplishing a lot since I've decided to keep my mind busy. I'm still not back to myself yet, but I'm glad to report I am on my way, and I'm glad my new hobby has kept me from becoming depressed. I just knew something needed to change, and I knew that if I didn't do something soon I'd sit around and think and dwell, and this keeps my brain active and thinking without it drifting to places where it shouldn't. You'd be surprised the things you can find when you put your mind to it.