Friendship Problems
By Absinto
@Absinto (2385)
Portugal
May 17, 2016 11:21am CST
So i have been having a bit of a miscommunication problem with a friend of mine for around a month or so.
It wasn't actually bothering me how he was treating me compared to my other friends, but this last week it hit me hard for some reason. I didn't know if he had some sort of problem with me because i saw him treating my other two friends diferently.
Specifically when it came to doing a simply thing like drinking coffee. He would go with then but for some reason there was always and excuse when it came to me.
So i confronted him about it and he says that it is all in my head and i had bad timing. yet i think that is a bigger excuse. No one has bad timing for over a month.
What do you think? I am over exagerating on the subject?
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6 responses
@siddrokr (163)
• India
17 May 16
I understand you issue. You are a bit over thinking on this matter. See he has a life of his own,he has his own circle. it may be that for that particular time period he gets indulged into that circle. But this does not mean that he is staying away from you. Because you never know his excuses may be genuine. Yes one thing you can do direct ask him,what he expects from you and then you say what you expect from him. keep calm...dont worry too much.,
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@LeaPea2417 (36592)
• Toccoa, Georgia
17 May 16
It is hard for me to explain exactly, but it is like he is arrogant and thinks he is better than you are. Way back when I was in college, I dated a guy like that. He made me feel inferior to him. Little things I did that was not wrong to do, but he thought was wrong for me to do, he would call me out on it. I dropped him soon thereafter!
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
20 May 16
did you asked him already on what's wrong with the friendship between the two of you?
@Dextoi (1845)
• Philippines
17 May 16
I think you have to understand that he has to manage his time... and maybe, you can ask your common friends to have a bonding time together... at least, he won't get to spend some time just with you; I think having other people around you to would change the situation a bit
@summerbree (16)
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18 May 16
Maybe there is some kind of misunderstanding rather than miscommunication. He could have heard something from some other friends about you and misinterpreted it and instead of discussing it with you he chose to sleep over it but it is still there in the air and that's why there's some awkwardness between you two. Try talking to him about different things see if anything makes him answer differently, you know him, you'll know the difference if anything strikes him.
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