What Will You Do If You Catch your Partner Cheating?
By hotcherry_10
@hotcherry_10 (265)
Philippines
25 responses
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
25 Nov 06
if cheating as in sleeping around, then i dont think i could calm myself, i will give him the break and ends the relationship. Me and my bf have this sorted out that if either one actually strayed/cheat, then it's the end..
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@hotcherry_10 (265)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
Well, youre right about that. Coz I wont be able to calm myself too if I catch him sleeping, as in in bed with somebody else too. Thanks for the response! :)
@FightingFreedom (281)
• Singapore
26 Nov 06
well it's kind of sad to see the others reply saying that there is totally no room to talk. though i do agree that it's hard to calm oneself to see the partner cheating, but we have to really sit down calmly and think, is it because of how we treated them then they cheat or otherwise.
i have seen cases where the partner ill-treat the other and the other party accepted someone else. so does that mean cheating? you may think, cheating is cheating, wrong is wrong. but if you didn't ill-treat the person, do you think anyone in the right of mind would want to accept another person?
if the case is otherwise, then you got to think, how much you love the person. could you accept the person's apologies if he/she is being sorry for what is done. if you can't, don't think you really love the person a lot and your life can be with or without the person.
just my ten cents worth of opinion...
@hotcherry_10 (265)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
That's right. I myself will do the same thing. But I just dont know how I would react if I see him in bed with another girl, I'm not really sure if I could still calm myself! Thanks for the response! =)
@FightingFreedom (281)
• Singapore
26 Nov 06
i do not know myself too but just pray that that would never happen. but just know if i do really love the person, i would forgive her.
@allamerican (28)
• United States
28 Nov 06
CAN'T SAY, BUT PRETTY SURE A CHAINSAW AND A SHOVEL WOULD BE NEEDED
@hotcherry_10 (265)
• Philippines
28 Nov 06
Hahahahaha! that would be great! hahahahahaha! Thanks for the response! :)
@vipul20044 (5794)
• India
26 Nov 06
Well i wont talk to him there is no point
First i will be sure that am i being dillusional
But then if things are like that, its better to leave her
As if she can cheat once she can do that again
And i hate backstabbers
@hotcherry_10 (265)
• Philippines
28 Nov 06
Sometimes its really hard to tell. Thanks for the response! :)
@hotcherry_10 (265)
• Philippines
28 Nov 06
I hope that wont happen to you too. Thanks for the response! :)
@hotcherry_10 (265)
• Philippines
28 Nov 06
I wish I have that kind of control! Thanks for the response! :)
@AlmightyBigfoot888 (553)
• United States
26 Nov 06
probably be really mad and then try to work it out, since it would probably have been soemthing i did to make her do that.
@firelight (1858)
• Australia
26 Nov 06
If I caught my partner cheating, it would be over, if someone truly loves you then they won't do something so low and nasty to you like that!
@Poison_Girl (4150)
• United States
26 Nov 06
I'd probably go crazy and turn into a madwoman. Might even punch him! I'd be extremely angry and who knows what I would do.
@hotcherry_10 (265)
• Philippines
26 Nov 06
Hahahahahaha! Hey, whatever you do, don't forget that there's still a big life ahead of you! You will definitely meet someone better! :) Thanks for the response!
@meishalicious (672)
• United States
26 Nov 06
ill picture them together and post it into the net.. "the world's best cheater" or if im not in the mood illthrow them watever i have in my hand.. hehehe
