Body language and Backbiting - Like or dislike

@Chungshop (2365)
June 6, 2016 12:28am CST
Body language is a kind of nonverbal communication, where thoughts, intentions, or feelings are expressed by physical behaviors, such as facial expressions, body posture, gestures, eye movement, touch and the use of space. Backbiting, is to slander someone in their absence — to bite them behind their back. Originally, backbiting referred to an unsporting attack from the rear in the blood sport of bear baiting. In the Baha'i Faith, Christian, Islamic and Jewish doctrine, backbiting is considered a sin. When someone is talking or give a speech, but don't like it,but you don't stop him. But sometime your body reaction will show your dislike and you do something like coughing, move your post, touch your eye or nose, any sign the body will shown. Ever you has this body language sign when you don't like but you don;t say so. Do you like people talking something bad behind you. What is your feeling and experience about body language and backbiting ? Do you get hurt ?
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@magallon (18124)
• Philippines
6 Jun 16
Surely , it hurts me when I observe somebody who seems not interested or not listening to my discussion. It is like an insult. I can really tell if my listeners are not interested. I can see it from their faces, their movements or behavior. I hate backbiters. Talking about other people's lives is not a good act. Backbiters are happy when someone has failures in life. It seems like they are partying for others miseries in life.
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@Chungshop (2365)
6 Jun 16
Backbiting is like a small fire spark that can burnt the whole jungle lo
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@magallon (18124)
• Philippines
7 Jun 16
@Chungshop Yeah. And the tongue can kill a person.
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@Chungshop (2365)
7 Jun 16
@magallon There is a saying too translate something like this : Sickness come from mouth[we eat food}, trouble come out from mouth{we gossip}
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@Pankhini (492)
6 Jun 16
Yess i do get hurt... my point to them is that if you find something wrong in me come to me and tell me... it is me who needs improvement... telling others wont help either of us... I used to tell no backbiting pls but not now... i just hear it and give no reaction...
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@Chungshop (2365)
6 Jun 16
When someone is talking bad about other, leave the group go to toilet for refreshment, clean you ears lo
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@Pankhini (492)
6 Jun 16
@Chungshop good idea...
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@Chungshop (2365)
6 Jun 16
@Pankhini For fear you may get the virus lo
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• Philippines
6 Jun 16
Yup and that's the sign of disrespect. I remember my mom making speech and this annoying member kept talking to the other member. In the end she got the karma she deserves.
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@Chungshop (2365)
6 Jun 16
When the speaker is speaking and you're speaking , then how to know what the speaking talking about. To avoid this situation, usually I like to sit alone with strangers and concentrate with the speaker lo
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• Philippines
6 Jun 16
@Chungshop oh, she was doing it on purpose, I think mom walk out before there could be a Q and A for it.
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@Chungshop (2365)
6 Jun 16
@ilocosboy (35980)
• Philippines
6 Jun 16
yes of course i don't like that.much better you tell me rigth now but not tomorrow ,because if you did that to me i asure you,you won't regret what will i do to you.but you have to be sure that what are you talking is true not a lie beware.im a friendly person but if you do something wrong, i don't think so
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@Chungshop (2365)
6 Jun 16
Don't point other by finger if you don't like me pointing you lo
• Philippines
20 Jun 16
I don't like backbiting. It is not right. And it is rude to make gestures if you are not interested to listen to a topic. Maybe you should keep silent and try to listen.