Relationship Issue- mother in law

June 15, 2016 7:18am CST
One of my friend is married for last 12 years. She lives with her in laws, hubby & her daughter. It has been so long for her as a daughter in law yet her mother in law does not speak to her nicely, she has always been rude to her. Her daughter is now 11 years old. As both my friend & her hubby are working, her mother in law has started poisoning the little girl by saying all rubbish about her mother. She tries to make an influence on the little girl by speaking all wrong about her mom's character. The daughter now does not respect my friend, she is disappointed to see all that. She is also confused whether she should quit her job & stay at home to take care that her daughter can get out it or leave it to the destiny.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
15 Jun 16
I think she needs to talk to her husband about it. Perhaps her husband will serve as a mediator to resolve the issue.
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15 Jun 16
She is not so lucky even on that ground as her husband do not place much attention on such matters rather tells her do not pay attention on such things.
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@Shavkat (137261)
• Philippines
21 Jun 16
@Shreyashi That's the sad part. He should stood and try to fix this family issue.
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21 Jun 16
@Shavkat true He should.
@skysnap (20154)
15 Jun 16
let her continue the job. as for mother in law; she'll lern soon that things will be back to normal.
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@earnnings (1325)
• India
17 Jun 16
Mother-in-law shows her domination in some or the other way but not all. If they feel that their domination is not working anymore then raises their ego. Ask your friend to give her daughter special classes of her interest. Girl needs to be busy with her activities and should not involve in chatting with grandmother. Your friend's husband knows this or not, if she can convince him ask to talk with his mother and get clarification. Why the hell her mother-in-law is spoiling little one's heart ? Quitting job is not the solution, but to be clear what is going on, she has to fight against such impure activity
17 Jun 16
Very Inspiring, I am sharing this with her right now. Its true she should find out the solution instead of continuing with it.
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