Are you the one who easily gets dominated?
@Blue_bubble (697)
Raipur, India
June 16, 2016 12:42pm CST
Hey guys. It was just one of the days for me when everything was just going wrong. I sometimes feel my soft nature gives a leverage to other people to dominate me.I don't know if I am the only one who feels this way.
Today throughout the entire day I was blamed of things I wasn't even responsible for. I say something or do something with a good intention but it backfires on me and then I have to bear all the hurtful things which are said to me.
I think I should grow a spine and start taking up stand for myself.
How about you guys? Have you ever felt the same? Gone a long way to do something for someone and yet ended up being thrashed?
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@ModernDayWriter (3318)
• New Delhi, India
16 Jun 16
If someone try to do this emotionally yes I do 
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@Blue_bubble (697)
• Raipur, India
17 Jun 16
It's so heart breaking. People taking advantage of your weaknesses.
@Blue_bubble (697)
• Raipur, India
17 Jun 16
@ModernDayWriter And you are just emotionally drained at the end of the day.
So I have realized if you cant change yourself better to stay away from such people.
@ModernDayWriter (3318)
• New Delhi, India
17 Jun 16
@Blue_bubble yes. Sometimes I have to bear loss too.
@divinebee (260)
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16 Jun 16
My mom in law tries to dominate me.. n i just hate it
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@Blue_bubble (697)
• Raipur, India
16 Jun 16
So what do you do about it?
Fight back? Tolerate?
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@divinebee (260)
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16 Jun 16
@Blue_bubble Tolerate obviously. .. Because my husband dear loves his mother unconditionally.. So cant do much about it.. He too knows that its unfair, but he doesnt like fighting with his aged mother..
@Blue_bubble (697)
• Raipur, India
16 Jun 16
@divinebee Yeah sometimes we cannot do much. We just have to silently surrender.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
17 Jun 16
Yeah I am the same way. I am way too nice most of the time and others take advantage of me a lot. I wouldn't change myself though because I am a peace keeper and that's a rare thing to be now a days. =)
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@Blue_bubble (697)
• Raipur, India
18 Jun 16
Do not change yourself but please keep yourself at bay from such mean people because the world has lost appreciation for kind hearted people.
@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
17 Jun 16
It has happened to me before, doing things for ungrateful people only to get bashed for it after
@BACONSTRIPSXXX (14351)
• West Haven, Connecticut
17 Jun 16
@Blue_bubble I agree, thats why I stopeed caring to be honest and I just worry about my wife and kids!
@Blue_bubble (697)
• Raipur, India
17 Jun 16
@BACONSTRIPSXXX That's right. Shift your focus to the person who truly deserves it.
Your wife and children are very lucky to have you!
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@Blue_bubble (697)
• Raipur, India
17 Jun 16
The world is really ungrateful. You never get acknowledged for your sincere efforts. All you get is hurtful words in return.
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@theBlock (2657)
• United States
16 Jun 16
@Blue_bubble I like to be dominated by passive women.
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@Blue_bubble (697)
• Raipur, India
17 Jun 16
But the question here is whether or not you are dominated emotionally by anyone?
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@rachz_kisses (3798)
• Philippines
17 Jun 16
I do feel dominated. Usually at work. But I stand up for myself when it is too much. I don't care what impression I leave as long as I have let them know that I am not okay with that.
@Blue_bubble (697)
• Raipur, India
17 Jun 16
One should definitely take a stand for himself/herself if they are feeling oppressed.
But here I meant do you feel dominated emotionally, on a personal level, by the persons you are surrounded by or close to.
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