should a guy always pay for the food?

@lady1993 (15716)
Philippines
June 18, 2016 3:21am CST
when he is still courting you? Since equality is 'in' right now, i agree that it should not be the guy who pays the bill all the time, when people date... But what if the guy is still courting you?
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@MGjhaud (20802)
• Philippines
18 Jun 16
Not always. It makes me happy if i treat my man once in a while. I dont mind splitting the bill too.
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@lady1993 (15716)
• Philippines
27 Apr
yes, since we are both earning anyway
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@MGjhaud (20802)
• Philippines
27 Apr
i guess some men loves it when they're being pampered in that way..
@Macarrosel (7633)
• Philippines
18 Jun 16
When my husband was courting me, he always pay the bill. But one time I found out that he ran out of cash so I gave mine to him for that occasion only.
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@lady1993 (15716)
• Philippines
27 Apr
oh, that is nice of you
• United States
18 Jun 16
When I was dating my boyfriend he always paid then as we advanced in the relationship we both agreed we can take turns to pay.
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@lady1993 (15716)
• Philippines
27 Apr
it is nice to split the bill from time to time
• United States
27 Apr
@lady1993 yep nothing wrong with that.
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@annierose (17416)
• Philippines
18 Jun 16
In our country, it is always expected that if the guy is still courting a girl, then he must be the one who should shoulder all the cost especially for sure, it is the guy who did the invite to eat outside. It is considered a bit rude if the guy let the girl pay for the food she ate especially while they are in the courting stage. I won't mind if the guy courting me will let me pay the food that I ate but it is something that I think is very awkward to do.
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@lady1993 (15716)
• Philippines
27 Apr
yes that is what i know too, but then i find it also sad if he always pays when the food is so expensive, so i sometimes pay for my food
@diosabella (4843)
27 Apr
When the guy ask for a date I automatically let them pay for me. But if I want to go out and I'm the one who ask, I pay the bill or split it up. But its kind of sweet when I ask for the date and he's still the one paying.
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@Lucky15 (33691)
• Philippines
18 Jun 16
Well...it depends. Lol
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@Dyvette16 (1361)
• San Antonio, Texas
25 Nov
Before my fiancé and I shared money we would just take turns , we both didn’t have a problem with it
@lady1993 (15716)
• Philippines
25 Nov
that's nice, equal sharing
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@Dyvette16 (1361)
• San Antonio, Texas
25 Nov
@lady1993 yes so no issues ! Lol
@marlina (62407)
• Canada
18 Jun 16
I don't think that the guys should always pay, I believe in 50/50.
@lady1993 (15716)
• Philippines
27 Apr
I go with that now too
@youless (87160)
• Guangzhou, China
18 Jun 16
I think when a boy is having a date with a girl that he likes, it is better for him to pay for the bills. However, it is unfair that he will pay for him all the time. The girl can pay a little sometimes if she also likes this boy and wants to have a stable love relationship with him. Or she can buy some gifts for him.
@lady1993 (15716)
• Philippines
27 Apr
indeed, so the guy will not be bankrupt
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