sarcastic person

conductor of the van

laugh a lady obese passenger

asking him why he did that to the passenger

no right to say that

How do you deal a sarcastic person?

@ida123 (6206)

Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

June 21, 2016 7:27am CST

Sarcastic persons are everywhere but when you encounter such, do you react or just leave the way they did? When going to my parents house this morning, a conductor of the van is very sarcastic. He used to laugh a lady obese passenger and told her, you're very fat, how many plates of rice do you consume, blah, blah. The lady cried for embarrassment done by the conductor. When the conductor seated beside me, I asked him slowly, why are you embarrassing that lady?You have no right to say that to her, it's her life not yours. If I were you, ask forgiveness and say sorry. He just smiled at me. When I almost arrived at my destination, he seated beside the lady and asked sorry of what he did, the lady accepted her sorry. I'm glad that he asked forgiveness. I can't bear this kind of people who are sarcastic, maybe I can't sleep thinking of what had happen if he's not sorry for that. How about you friends, can you dare to tell the conductor of his sarcastic way of dealing people?

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@epiffanie (11326)

• Australia

21 Jun 16

Yes, I probably would say something to the rude person too .. I'm glad you enlightened him ..

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

21 Jun 16

I did that because I can't tolerate such act. I pity the lady who cried for that insult. At least, I help also the conductor and I hope, he won't do that again.

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@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

21 Jun 16

@epiffanie, He should be thankful that lady is not hot tempered hehehe.

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@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

21 Jun 16

I will immediately strike that person by telling his attitude as non of his business as to the size of the person.That is bullying and punishable by law.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

21 Jun 16

I met many kind of persons like this, who do not practice good manners and not respecting other person's right.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

21 Jun 16

@cacay1 In my case, I won't hurt him or even pinch him, just saying some words that can hit directly to his heart

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@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

21 Jun 16

@ida123 Thankful I haven't met hahaha for that person will have his nose bleed haha.

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

24 Jun 16

I would certainly berate that conductor and tell him that i will report him to LTFRB for that misconduct . As a conductor he should be accommodating to all types of persons .

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@SIMPLYD (90722)

• Philippines

24 Jun 16

@ida123 He could be dismissed from his job , if he is complained of .

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

24 Jun 16

@SIMPLYD next time, when some conductors are doing the same, i'll make a report to their operator or to the LTFRB

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

24 Jun 16

yes, that's what he must do but what he did is insulting the poor lady

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@ridingbet (66857)

• Philippines

22 Jun 16

that is already bullying the lady. why? does the conductor have any flaws that he bullies the lady? i doubt.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

when the lady is seating inside the van and the conductor wants to seat beside her but he can't because the seat is already occupied by the lady. maybe because he can't seat, that's the time he says some bad words against her

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

@ridingbet Nah, he was not.

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@ridingbet (66857)

• Philippines

22 Jun 16

@ida123 no my friend, i meant, does the conductor have NO flaws that is why he was rude to the fat lady? did he think he is perfect?

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@Yar_Joey (3271)

• Philippines

22 Jun 16

That is so rude, he should be taught GMRC

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

Maybe, this conductor has not attended school that's why he acted that way.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

23 Jun 16

@Yar_Joey i think that is the reason

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@Yar_Joey (3271)

• Philippines

23 Jun 16

@ida123 maybe he lacks education or he did not finished schooling because of financial; matters

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@harry6 (133)

• Chandigarh, India

21 Jun 16

the best way to treat such person is start ignoring them. Let them speak and do not reply to their comment. Because we are not Sarcastic or insane like him, ignoring such person means he means nothing to you

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

But he must stop insulting or being rude to others, it's up to him if he listens to my advise but for me, when someone was being hurt by others and the one who is very rude and just smiling when he said that, I really have to call his attention but in a right manner.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

@harry6 yes, that is true but at least i told him to stop such rudeness

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• Chandigarh, India

22 Jun 16

@ida123 yeah you are right too. But this world is full of fool everywhere. You can't stop each and everyone.

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@toniganzon (72279)

• Philippines

21 Jun 16

That was not just being sarcastic! That was up front rudeness.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

21 Jun 16

Sometimes, I can understand this kind of persons who are so rude, they have no proper education, right?

@toniganzon (72279)

• Philippines

21 Jun 16

@ida123 Yes that's why they only know rudeness. Sarcasm is a totally different thing. Like if somebody made a mistake but i say how perfect that is...then that's sarcasm.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

21 Jun 16

@toniganzon Yes, that is what @JolietJake told me and I know now the difference of the two. Thanks friend.

@jstory07 (134740)

• Roseburg, Oregon

23 Jun 16

One of my relatives is that way It is hard being around people that act that way.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

23 Jun 16

i agree, that's why i talk to him amd give him some piece of advise

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@TheHorse (206898)

• Walnut Creek, California

23 Jun 16

Here in the US, someone who treated a customer like that would be fired.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

23 Jun 16

in our place, most persons who employed in this kind of job are not well trained and the owners ate not giving them seminars on how to deal their customers. glad that most employer there are giving concern to their customers.

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@just4him (307646)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

22 Jun 16

I'd be embarrassed for the person, but I'm afraid I wouldn't say anything.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

for me i can't tolerate such kind of abuse so i really reacted that way but in a peaceful approach

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@just4him (307646)

• Green Bay, Wisconsin

22 Jun 16

@ida123 It's good you did.

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@JudyEv (326351)

• Rockingham, Australia

21 Jun 16

I don't think that is sarcastic. That is very rude. I'm glad you spoke to him. You are a very kind person. Many people would feel as you do but wouldn't say anything.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

21 Jun 16

That is true, many of us hear of what the conductor said but only me who has the guts to tell the conductor that what he did is not good, he's not respecting the right of that lady and am glad, he also listens to me.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

@JudyEv i hope, he will

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@JudyEv (326351)

• Rockingham, Australia

22 Jun 16

@ida123 And hopefully he will think twice next time before saying something so horrible.

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@trivia79 (7828)

• El Segundo, California

21 Jun 16

To be honest, i consider myself as a sarcastic person. But i know my limitations especially if i don't know much of the person.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

21 Jun 16

At least, you choose those persons whom you know and you'll do that to them.

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@trivia79 (7828)

• El Segundo, California

22 Jun 16

@ida123 yes. and to others, i only speak to my mind if i am sarcastic to them LOL

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@manohar282 (88)

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23 Jun 16

laugh at the sarcastic person and make that person realise that his behaviour is totally wrong. Maybe that conductor was more worried about his vehicle's mileage as he might think that transporting more obese people could result in more fuel consumption by his vehicle. Such incidents have happened in case of airlines where more obese people had to pay the price of two seats to accommodate themselves.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

23 Jun 16

before the lady rides in the van, he must tell first the lady that she has to pay double rather than to embarrass her

@ilocosboy (45157)

• Philippines

22 Jun 16

I like the way you handled the situation, if only people give some advice, it would be great for us

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

I think, all of us has each own responsibilities to our fellowmen. If they are rude, give them a piece of advise that can really hit their heart and mind.

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@ilocosboy (45157)

• Philippines

22 Jun 16

@ida123 I'm glad you did it. Not many people can do it.

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• Philippines

22 Jun 16

what you did was good, from time to time these kind of people needs a dose of reality

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

Yes, we try to help them also by giving them some advise so that they will know what they are doing is not good.

@mammots (3209)

• Philippines

22 Jun 16

Thats a perfect example of bullying. If i were in your shoes i would have given him a dose of his own medicine.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

Maybe next time if I'm the victim.

@sofssu (23662)

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22 Jun 16

Great job.. I would have been mean to him if I was on that van.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

Yes, most passengers on that van was mean to him, they don't like also the way he did to the lady.

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@DianneN (247219)

• United States

22 Jun 16

He's not sarcastic. He's cruel and judgemental. I'm glad you suggested he apologize and that he did.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

Yes, I'm thankful enough that he did apologized to the lady he hurts.

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@Lucky15 (37346)

• Philippines

22 Jun 16

That is not nice. Our youngest sister has the same issue when we ride a jeep. That i gave the driver a look. Lol

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

When someone did this especially to girls, we make some actions that can stop this bad behaviors but give them some advise in a proper way.

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@BettyB (4117)

• Summerville, South Carolina

22 Jun 16

I don't see what he said as sarcastic, it was just plain rude. I pray he thinks twice before saying something like that again.

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@ida123 (6206)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

22 Jun 16

Yes, he must think first before saying something to other person if it can hurts or not. But, most people don't think of what they say if they hurt somebody, they just say of what they like.