VENTING....

@Babs0630 (487)
June 21, 2016 9:27am CST
So I'm sitting here drinking coffee and minding my own when I get two text messages from my so called mother telling me about a pool party that she invited us to and how my sister wants to meet up with us tomorrow. Well my mom has done alot a crappiness towards me and my family after doing nothing but helping her out. And I get so upset after she texts or calls because the things she has done has hurt me and everyone who has done nothing but good to her. Example: she called lovingmybabies and her husband up to say she needed help with food and what do you know her roommate is at the same store buying beer for the house instead of buying groceries! Example 2: when she was staying with us my kids gave up their bed for her she went and told my sister that we made her sleep in the floor without pillows and blankets! Example 3: we were staying with her when we were homeless and she kicked me and my kids out at midnight with nowhere to go. Yeah, I just told her that us going to her house was not gonna happen in this life or the next! Im so done with my so called family the only ones I talk to is lovingmybabies and her family.
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@gr8nana6 (2187)
• United States
21 Jun 16
I am sorry to hear how your Mom has treated you, staying away from her would be the best and just don't let her get to you.
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@Babs0630 (487)
18 Apr 17
I try not to love I'm sorry for the oh so late reply but I have been away and came bk and I'm catching up. That woman still text me.
@msiduri (5732)
• United States
21 Jun 16
Venting is good. Now, I hope you'll move on and make some happy memories for yourself and your kids.
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@Babs0630 (487)
21 Jun 16
Oh,we will thank you hugs
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@sugartoes (43791)
• Greencastle, Indiana
21 Jun 16
I can SURE understand how you feel with that & I can't much blame you for the way you feel I'd feel the same way lovingmybabies is a awesome person I think from what time we have spoke on here
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@Babs0630 (487)
21 Jun 16
She is! she the sister I never had and I have 3 but none like her! She is one of a kind!
@sharon6345 (147205)
• United States
21 Jun 16
Sometimes you can live a happy life without that drama in it. If my mom tossed me out at midnight not only would she never see me again. She would not see my kids. There is no need for anger at this point. write her off and move on. No one said blood makes you bonded. I never felt that just because you can make a a child your going to be a good parent. Have a good day.
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@Babs0630 (487)
21 Jun 16
Thank you! Hugs
• Lenox, Georgia
21 Jun 16
I know it's hard but try not to let her get to you. It's only hurting you not her. Some people thrive on getting others annoyed-and I feel she is one of those kind. Don't let her text or call ruin your day. You can control your own happiness so don't let her steal your joy. Oh and I love the picture you put up here! =)
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@Babs0630 (487)
21 Jun 16
I can't help it that woman she ugggh just you know lol. I love y'all
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@amadeo (78190)
• United States
21 Jun 16
need to work something there.Depend how you feel about this situation.
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@Babs0630 (487)
21 Jun 16
There is nothing there for me all she did was give birth that was it. She was never there for me as a child or an adult. But thank you!
@marguicha (106009)
• Chile
21 Jun 16
When you have a toxic relationship with a member of your family, you have to move on and move away. I can understand you perfectly well.
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@Babs0630 (487)
21 Jun 16
Exactly! Hugs