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You need to tell us what you would do, that would make this more of a discussion than you just asking a question. I've been married 51 years and we support each other in every way.

Both of us do things together.. We always ask each other for suggestions or opinions. Its always team work with us.

Well, the husband should volunteer to cook, wash dishes, vacuum clean , iron clothes , do some dusting , change baby's nappies.. That's about it,

I sometimes help her in household activities like cooking washing etc . It makes me very happy to help her .

We've never discussed it before but we just have our mutual agreement. He works all day out in the hot sun and let's face it. ...we live in Florida which means there's hardly even a break from the sun during winter so he's literally out in it always. He does concrete and he's always lugging around a heavy house with tons of concrete pouring through it. To say the least his job is strenuous. But he brings in the money and I take care of everything else ie. Pay the bills take care of kids clean the house do all the appointments. The only other thing he contributes with is cooking because he used to work in a5 star restaurant as head chef so I just can't match up. Lol sometimes I feel like I'm talking care of way more than him but when I think about how strenuous his job is I stop complaining because honestly I couldn't do that. [b][/b][i][/i][u][/u]