why my discussions should not get more than 10 responses

@aarifa (1210)
India
June 26, 2016 5:27am CST
I think many people here get this feeling like me..why my discussions did not get more than 10 responses. I dont know why?. Here i am interacting well. atleast i respond 20 per day..and create good comments.. I am wondered some people discussions got 30,50, 78 responses.they are lucky fellows here i think. You know i am longing for my discussion wasbnt come to top rated discussions..but it fell only under no responses.. What to do?.any idea..please ..
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
26 Jun 16
I think it depends on the type of discussion written. The audience here are varied, I think. Some want the scholarly discussion, others like the light one, still others want discussions that are informative and there are those who want the "gossip" type. Any of those kind of audience who chance upon a discussion that they prefer would surely drop a line or two to comment or respond.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
26 Jun 16
I think that you said it just right @sunrisefan!
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Jun 16
@sunrisefan,Very good explanation Sir, I salute you.LOL.
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
26 Jun 16
Ya I feel the same though I have the same thing happening hehehe.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
26 Jun 16
It does take a while to build up a circle of friends here, but the only way to do it is to keep on responding and commenting. Personally I don't write posts that often, so those I do write get more attention.
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@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
26 Jun 16
Same as you Janet. I do not even write every day, but I spend time every day to interact with the others and I know you do the same.
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
26 Jun 16
@LadyDuck Yes Anna - you and I seem to be similar in so may ways, including our modus operandi on MyLot.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Jun 16
@jaboUK, I agree with you friend. It takes weeks and months to get noticed here.
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
26 Jun 16
It is like life. Some people have it and others don't. Work harder for less? Like you I am one of the peasants here. My post numbers are lower than others. There are gifts that make up for it. Someone gave me a compliment the other day.
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
26 Jun 16
@cacay1 yes looking for something other than fame and fortune. lol I'll take it. ha ha
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Jun 16
@Bluedoll hahahaha. This is what I want happiness in mylotting never mind the top rate and so on ,and so forth let's have fun.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Jun 16
@Bluedoll, We seem sentimental now.
@ida123 (6206)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Jun 16
Just continue interacting, one day those mylotters whom you responded might see you when you comment or respond their discussions so often.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Jun 16
@ida123, That is very possible sis.We cannot dictate the decision of others.
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@aarifa (1210)
• India
26 Jun 16
Correct. I will follow what you said interacting..
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@shivamani10 (11038)
• Hyderabad, India
26 Jun 16
No one is impressed with our Discussion. we are totally unortunate. But, we are propmptly reading their discussions and responding to them. Poor Indians.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Jun 16
@shivamani10, It hurts me the words you say. Admin here is very considerate and never allow anyone to discriminate anyone. This site makes us happy, so when you composed discussion, it should not be somewhat serious.This site is created regardless of nationalities and beliefs.
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
26 Jun 16
@cacay1 Nationality absolutely does NOT come into it, you are correct. I have a lot of Indian friends here, as I do Filipinos, Americans, South Africans etc.etc. They are friends because I like them, not because of where they are from. Please note this @shivamani10
@aarifa (1210)
• India
26 Jun 16
I agree what you said unfortunate..but i disagree you we poor indians. Because mylot is a big family of world.it dont partial people by their countries.. Some times truth becomes bitter..
• China
26 Jun 16
Never mind.It is just to enjoy yourself.Have a nice day.
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Jun 16
Agree.
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@aarifa (1210)
• India
26 Jun 16
Ok ..keep rocking..
@aarifa (1210)
• India
26 Jun 16
@cacay1 thank you dear.. you interact well here.. lovely mom you are..
@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
26 Jun 16
I see that this posts has more than 10 responses, so this shows that it is possible. Of course it takes time to built a circle of readers that regularly interact with you.
@LadyDuck (458230)
• Switzerland
26 Jun 16
@aarifa You will find more friends here, do not worry.
@aarifa (1210)
• India
26 Jun 16
Yes anna..but this is my first post get more responses..i am happy whenever i get new friends here..you are my very good friend..because you guide me every discussions of mine.happy for you...
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• West Haven, Connecticut
27 Jun 16
It just depends on the topic, iv gotten up to 50 comments on one post and others less than 10 lol
• West Haven, Connecticut
29 Jun 16
@aarifa Yeah im always interacting as much as I can
@aarifa (1210)
• India
29 Jun 16
Same here...this is my first ppstt more responses...but i know you are interacting well here friend...
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@cacay1 (83223)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
26 Jun 16
Don't worry dear, I will always read , comment and interact on your post. be happy.
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@aarifa (1210)
• India
26 Jun 16
I know..you are a good star..
@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Jun 16
Getting a huge number of comments doesn't necessarily make you a lot of money. You earn by interacting with others so keep doing that and in time you will find you're getting more responses as well.
@JudyEv (325815)
• Rockingham, Australia
27 Jun 16
@aarifa You get most money if you interact a lot. You don't really need a lot of discussions.
@aarifa (1210)
• India
27 Jun 16
What u say if we get comments wont make money?
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
26 Jun 16
Same happens with me as well.
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@aarifa (1210)
• India
26 Jun 16
What to do...fate ..
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
26 Jun 16
@aarifa hehehe I don't know lol.I try my best yet I don't know.Let us have patience may be some day we will reach that number. :)
@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
28 Jun 16
build an online mylot friendship first and those people will most of the time interact with your future discussions :)
@aarifa (1210)
• India
29 Jun 16
Thanks...i will build a good friendship circle...let me start from you...
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@trivia79 (7828)
• El Segundo, California
29 Jun 16
@aarifa aren't we have already? we've been interacting for quite some time now hehe
@teenspirit (1597)
• Israel
26 Jun 16
your situation is so good! my discussion get 7 responds max.
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@aarifa (1210)
• India
26 Jun 16
Dont worry...we are here to support you..
• Israel
26 Jun 16
@aarifa thanks:)
• Indonesia
27 Jun 16
mybe your discussion is not to interesting ...or too complicated ,,, that can make people feel boring ...everyday life maybe better ?
@aarifa (1210)
• India
29 Jun 16
May Be.. but if boring why i get 10 responses?...
@aarifa (1210)
• India
29 Jun 16
Yeah.. bro...but i need to build friends circle here...
• Indonesia
29 Jun 16
10 responses ..its not bad.....i saw others discussion even no one answer or like
• Preston, England
27 Jun 16
10 isn't bad - there are discussions on here that get no responses at all
@else34 (13517)
• New Delhi, India
26 Jun 16
@aarifa,Go on interacting.You will soon start receiving more than 10 responses to each of your discussions.I post only one discussion in two or three days and am quite satisfied by the number of responses they receive.
@aarifa (1210)
• India
26 Jun 16
Good. Thanks for your guideliness..
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• United States
27 Jun 16
Sometimes it is just about what will catch my attention, so if I feel I can contribute I will, sometimes I have to think too hard on what to say I will pass over a topic.
@DianneN (246905)
• United States
26 Jun 16
Keep responding and interacting. Once they get to know you, they will respond back.
@aarifa (1210)
• India
26 Jun 16
100 percent correct mom...
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@Lucky15 (37346)
• Philippines
26 Jun 16
I felt the same thing before...but when i started to.have fun, it just changed and i got more.
@aarifa (1210)
• India
27 Jun 16
Lovely....Keep in touch...good friend...
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@sj3011 (623)
26 Jun 16
Depends on the post you wrote.
@aarifa (1210)
• India
26 Jun 16
Dont agree. Some people wrote here good suday .and next day good monday...but they have more responses ..