5 Ways To Feel Happier Right Now!

@MissNikki (5237)
Maple Ridge, British Columbia
July 10, 2016 2:41pm CST
Feeling blue? Had a bad day at work? Here are 5 things you can do right now to make yourself feel happy!  1. Play with or cuddle with an animal. Animals have been known to calm people who are in tense situations and keep them grounded.  2. Listen to a song you love. Try an up-tempo song to boost your mood.  3. Take a walk outside. Natural light stimulates chemicals in your brain and can help improve your mood.  4. Reach out to someone. Email a friend or give them a phone call to say hello and catch up.  5. Find your favorite movie, cuddle up on the couch with a loved one and some popcorn and enjoy!  I hope everyone is having a happy day or night wherever they may be.  (Photo belongs to MissNikki)
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• Valdosta, Georgia
10 Jul 16
I am feeling a little down at the moment because I miss my kids who left for camp today. Hopefully the next couple days will be easier until they get back on Wednesday.
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@paigea (35825)
• Canada
13 Jul 16
@enlightenedpsych2 thanks for the suggestion Erica. I did not like summer camp. I missed my mom and I was too shy to get to know the other kids. Luckily my mom had the wisdom to send me at the same time as some girls I knew so I had someone to talk to at least some of the time. They loved camp and did as many activities as they possibly could. They spent their days laughing and having so much fun.; so I got to see that example at least.
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@paigea (35825)
• Canada
14 Jul 16
@enlightenedpsych2 That is a great skill to have. Making friends.
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
11 Jul 16
Aww, I know it must be hard to be separated from your children. They will be home soon! I hope they have lots of fun camp stories to tell you when they get back
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@VivaLaDani13 (60681)
• Perth, Australia
3 Oct 16
@MissNikki Great advice and kind of you to share!
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@Daljinder (23233)
• Bangalore, India
28 Jan 17
@VivaLaDani13 Hey cuddle the stuffings outta Charlie and keep an eye on Leilah-the mouse chaser
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• Perth, Australia
29 Jan 17
@Daljinder Charlie keeps sitting in front of me to block the laptop lol Leilah was chasing another mouse last night.
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
28 Jan 17
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
13 Jul 16
I've having a good day so far but always blue ha ha. Anyway wanted to write that I thought all things things look like great things to do. I do them all sometimes. Love your picture.
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
17 Jul 16
Thank you @Bluedoll - I appreciate you taking the time to drop by!
@akalinus (40797)
• United States
13 Jul 16
Those are all good. Sometimes, people need cheering up.
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@akalinus (40797)
• United States
17 Jul 16
@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
17 Jul 16
They sure do, Jo Ann.
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@theBlock (2657)
• United States
10 Jul 16
@MissNikki I need at least 10 more things, Nikki!
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
17 Jul 16
I'm too tired to think of any more now Tim! LoL.
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@Tr8600 (144)
10 Jul 16
thanku for sharing this post :) let me add a bit mree tothis to feel happy instantly :) they r Write it down. Did you know that taking the time to write down 3 positive things each day will make you more optimistic and less stressed? And yes, we have an app for that :) Get outside. Just a few minutes of fresh air can give you a fresh perspective. Walk it out. A 20-minute brisk walk gets the heart pumping and will decrease stress. Make a statement. With your accessories. A bold statement necklace, your too-cool- for-school shades or your favorite kicks can be all you need to turn a 'blah' day around. Give yourself a boost. Of healthy nutrients! We're talking fruit, veggies and protein. When your body feels good your brain will follow. Leave a note. Make someone's day by leaving a "you're beautiful" note on the bathroom mirror. Do something. Whether it's sending an email or clearing the clutter off your dining room table, just getting one tiny little thing off your to-do list and onto the 'it's done' list will give you a huge mental sigh of relief. Say "thank you." Even this small act of gratitude will boost your positivity. Learn something new. Whether it's reading a wiki about a topic that interests you or watching a quick Youtube tutorial, the digital world is full of ways to learn things fast and on the go. Yes, even happiness courses! :) Be a good listener. Seeking out meaningful conversation is proven to improve your sense of well-being. Let it go. You can boost your happiness by detaching from past negativity. Straighten up! Our posture dictates how we feel, so straighten up and walk like a boss! Try something new. Break out of your routine and mix things up! It can be as simple as walking down a different street -- anything to just get off of autopilot and be present where you are. Spend money. The trick is you have to spend it on someone else to get the 'feel good' perks, according to Harvard professor Mike Norton. Text a friend. Reaching out to a pal and letting them know how awesome they are will make you feel awesome, too. Make plans. Having something to look forward to, even something small like making plans to grab a cup of coffee with a friend, makes you happier. Anticipation is like a secret weapon of happiness. Help someone. Feeling down? One of the quickest ways to pick yourself back up is to do something kind for someone else. Bonus feel good points when it's random and not expected of you. Stop comparing yourself. Chances are you always pick those at the very top to compare yourself to. No wonder you feel like you've come up short! Focusing on the things you've accomplished is a lot more productive. Smile. In one research study subjects who smiled after a stressful activity decreased their heart rate more quickly than those who didn't. It even works if you fake smile!
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@theBlock (2657)
• United States
10 Jul 16
@Tr8600 Oh, and a warm bubble bath! Don't tell my homies i take bubble baths---gotta go
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
11 Jul 16
@theBlock Bubble bath sounds nice!
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
17 Jul 16
@paigea Paige that would be perfect!!
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
13 Jul 16
I like no 2 and 4 . They are what i do if ever i am playing blue . Most of all, i pray for enlightenment .
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@inertia4 (27961)
• United States
13 Jul 16
All the above are great ways to feel happier and calmer. I do just about all of those everyday. Thanks for this post.
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@ricki_911 (21625)
• Toronto, Ontario
11 Jul 16
I guess in a way this can help for the time being but what if it a long term issue and you are just covering it up.
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
17 Jul 16
Then that person needs a different kind of help.
@marlina (154165)
• Canada
11 Jul 16
I like your number 3 the best!
@just4him (308669)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
13 Jul 16
Those are all great ways to get your 'happy' on.
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@paigea (35825)
• Canada
13 Jul 16
A very great list. Number 4 is one I need to do. Call a dear friend I haven't spoke to in a long time.
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@rina110383 (24495)
11 Jul 16
I like the walking. I do it often.
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
11 Jul 16
Walking is so important for maintaining good health!
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• New Delhi, India
10 Jul 16
Thanks for the tips
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
11 Jul 16
You are so welcome