She stared blankly.

@ridingbet (66854)
Philippines
July 19, 2016 6:06am CST
Yesterday was supposed to be the arrival of the accreditors who should evaluate our school if it is fit to become a university in 2 years time. Our college of nursing was the most specific college they wanted to evaluate that is why we worked in school last week. Yesterday too, when I went to the emergency room to fetch my colleague, Ms. C, I saw our clinical coordinator approaching me and let me sign the evaluation of students, peers, and supervisors of the wards where I am handling my students. She further said that we must dismiss our group at 2 PM then I and Ms.C should proceed to school to sign the clinical focus that we did last week. When we were there, the dean told us "to put our bags in the cubicle" because we will stay until 6 PM. I said I have to go home because I have an appointment at 4 PM. I left at 3:30 PM, Ms. C stayed behind until 6 PM. Ms. C and I observed that our CC was staring blankly on the wall. We were reading each others' eyes and we confirmed that our CC was so overwhelmed with the work and responsibilities on her shoulders. I received another text message from her at 10:22 last night. I think she is rushing and also wants us part-timers to join her in her huge work load. My colleague confirmed again that last night, the CC was staring blankly, and delayed printing Ms. C's clinical focus. Should you accept responsibilities that you cannot do alone? Or should you share the tasks to others too?
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@Lucky15 (37391)
• Philippines
19 Jul 16
I could ask for help
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
yes, she should ask for help from her co-full timers and not us because we don't know some of their responsibilities in school
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
1 Aug 16
@Yar_Joey ditto
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@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
It depends if the person I will ask help from knows the job well.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Jul 16
Sharing responsibilities makes the work load lighter.
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@just4him (323168)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Jul 16
@ridingbet Absolutely. With the right people they work well together.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Jul 16
@just4him that is why we part timers should be given tasks only according to our job descriptions
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
right, but with the right persons.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
22 Jul 16
I do , if i will be given staff to help me. Perhaps she really has in mind you and the other clinical instructors . Like in a department of a company , it has a head and staff.
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@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
24 Jul 16
@ridingbet Yes , i wonder it's you part timers that she asked for help not her full time instructors .
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
24 Jul 16
@SIMPLYD well, sorry for her because i know my job responsibilities. staying long in school is even an extension of our 8 hours duty because we don't get paid with overtime pay
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
i agree, but you see, my lady, we are part time instructors only while there are more full timers who are ready to help her.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
30 Jul 16
I will share the task if that is much too handle by one.
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@wiLLmaH (8801)
• Singapore, Singapore
1 Aug 16
@ridingbet Correct. Or she need to give some incentives for the people who will help her..
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
1 Aug 16
@wiLLmaH i think she is not confident with her new responsibilities.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
1 Aug 16
but it should be within the confines of the job description
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@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
20 Jul 16
I can share my task to others provided they know what they will do. If they don't know, I better do the task alone
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
i agree BFF. rather than acting like i know everything
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
1 Aug 16
@Yar_Joey no work this August 1st due to the typhoon's aftermath
@Yar_Joey (3271)
• Philippines
30 Jul 16
@ridingbet Your task is finished now correct? Are you restful now?
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@brokenbee (11937)
• Philippines
19 Jul 16
I won't accept things that I cannot do.. I am not that responsible. Hihihi But if I accepted it, it means, I will do my best to do it.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
don't say that you are irresponsible, hija.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
@brokenbee you should be given a work load that needs your full time attention with care and concern.
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@brokenbee (11937)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
@ridingbet Hihi yes, I am not irresponsible. But not so responsible. I think there is a little difference with the two. Or not? Ahahaha
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@skysnap (20152)
19 Jul 16
It's hard to say. Sometimes we have to take on tasks that we don't have power to do.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
humility should be done when she cannot do all.
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@sofssu (23660)
20 Jul 16
I guess we all have moments of blankness like when when we have huge responsibilities. We always overcome them maybe with some help or maybe with some planning.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
i guess so, but the fact remains that she accepted the responsibility as our CC so she should be able to do the tasks well
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@jaboUK (64346)
• United Kingdom
19 Jul 16
No-one should take on more responsibility than they can handle.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
true. they should not show-off and feel invicible
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@TheHorse (238325)
• Walnut Creek, California
20 Jul 16
CC sounds overwhelmed.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
yes she was, but she did a very good job too.
@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
19 Jul 16
Poor CC. Too much weight on her shoulder.
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@sol_cee (38669)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
@ridingbet is she spider-woman? lol
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
indeed, but she should be aware that "with great power comes great responsibility".
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
@sol_cee yes, i think so. heheh!
@DianneN (254926)
• United States
19 Jul 16
Either CC is plain crazy, or needs help.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
yes my friend. she needed help, but she is not crazy, just overwhelmed with the responsiibility
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
19 Jul 16
If I'm not sure I can do the task. I will ask for someone who can help me. If it is very easy to handle well I maybe can do that task alone.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
23 Jul 16
as long as the persons you will ask help from also know the tasks.