So very confused

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I don't usually go anywhere. Part of the reason is because I only have public transportation right now. Then there is the fact that I don't usually have anyone to go anywhere with. As I've said before, I am single. I have gone on a few dates but nothing that led anywhere. The last few dates (which have been spaced out over a few months time), have been with the same guy. This tells you exactly how much I date lol. Anyway, we decided to go on a date yesterday. We both have quite a bit in common. One of the things we like is old architecture. We decided to go to a town where every house there was built before the 1900's. It's just a small town but it has so many amazing houses and history. Then we went to another small town where there are a few houses just as old. We were lucky enough in the second town to be able to actually see the inside of one of the houses. It was so amazing because the majority of the house was still all original. At the end of the evening he brought me home and, as always, he was a perfect gentleman. As we were out enjoying the evening and talking he stated that he really likes me and wants to make it official that we date. I don't know if that's what I want, with him anyway. He's a great guy and as I said, a perfect gentleman, but not sure we are compatible. Just because you have a lot in common with someone doesn't mean you are compatible. Big decision, do I just make it official and see what happens or do I remain cautious like always and possibly miss out on something that may be a great thing? So very confused. Am I the one keeping myself from finding happiness because of past relationships?