APPEARANCE - BOON OR BANE?

@Y_to_Y (58)
India
July 25, 2016 12:50am CST
Appearances are usually something that is not in our hands. Most of us categorise people on the basis of their appearance. We call them beautiful, handsome, gorgeous, smart and ugly. When the same thing happens to us, we feel bad, we cry, we never realise that our comments would have made someone else cry too in the past. People forget that appearance is not what decides that person's personality but their attitude has the whole and soul power to it. Some people also misunderstand appearances with the way they present themselves in-front of others. Nobody in this world is ugly, every person has his/her own beauty which personifies him/her. A person should be able to present himself/herself well. Personality and appearance are two extremely different attributes. A person who is well personified does not need anything else in the world to be successful. No one has the right to judge someone on the basis of their appearance. GOOD ATTITUDE LEADS TO A GOOD PERSONA.
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@durgabala (1360)
• India
25 Jul 16
Appearance is both Boon and Bane. You will criticizing people all around, you can not escape them. Just pose a Honest appearance, that would pull people towards you. All that glitters is not gold!! Do not judge people by appearance ..
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@Y_to_Y (58)
• India
25 Jul 16
Definitely... !!
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@Y_to_Y (58)
• India
25 Jul 16
@anamika161088 YES... our attitude is what would stay alive forever not the appearance.
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• India
25 Jul 16
Agree with durgabala. And appearance fades out with time so it should not be the criteria for any judgement.
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25 Jul 16
Its true. Personality is different from appearance. Attitude defines the personality
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@Y_to_Y (58)
• India
25 Jul 16
Yes! I feel so too..
@skysnap (20154)
25 Jul 16
I think it depends on the context.
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@skysnap (20154)
25 Jul 16
@Y_to_Y that is true. often personally is based on your circumstances too
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@Y_to_Y (58)
• India
25 Jul 16
Yeah but the ratio couldn't be 50:50... attitude reflects your personality more in any context.
@Y_to_Y (58)
• India
25 Jul 16
@skysnap Yes.. absolutely...!
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