Why Indian middleclass family don't gave respect to their daughter in law?

Surat, India
July 30, 2016 11:28am CST
Indian man from middle class familyalways want his wife to follow all commands of his mother blindly. And his mother want her bahu to work life a machine every second, to increase work efficiency, to have smile on her face , to eat less, sleep less and never complain about anything. They are doing all this just to satisfy there ego???
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@digiguru (557)
• Bangalore, India
3 Aug 16
I saw in many families in India.. But its not just India.. everywhere this is somewhat common..
• India
31 Jul 16
I think it has got more to do with the level of education and upbringing of the family members. If you go in North East , those people respect a girl child more than the boys. You can do your own bit , if you have a mother who was treated the same way by her mother in law but still would treat her own daughter in law worse then you gotta make her see the fault in her actions.
• Hyderabad, India
30 Jul 16
it happen because of show Dominance nature on the new girl in house after marriage or ego of getting less dowry and gold ,
@grvdubey11 (1879)
• India
31 Jul 16
You are generalizing it which is not correct, lots of Indian middle class families treat their daughters well. Just look around you and you will find that situation is not that worse. Also such problems are not limited only to middle class in India, the lower income and higher income families too have such domestic problems.
@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
30 Jul 16
This is a topic European members have nothing to say about.
• New Delhi, India
30 Jul 16
this is not the problem with middle class..... this is the problem of every class......... everybody need a good working machine for their home........
@skysnap (20154)
30 Jul 16
I think this gross generalization. I have seen the opposite cases too. But each to their own.
• India
30 Jul 16
Yes. They are bounded to their pity thoughts, don't want to change it. When anybody points it out, they would rather say that its their tradition and you must follow them. They cannot change themselves but would force daughter in law to change.