Wrong Shape.....

Pamplona, Spain
August 14, 2016 4:10am CST
I was quite dismayed to see a really beautiful girl being turned down by a man. what was his reason? According to him he did not like too many curves. I thought what curves? What has she got apart from the curves in the right place a well furnished intelligent mind. Never mind the world still goes around. Real truth is he does not know what he is missing he is losing out chasing the wrong thing.
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@skysnap (18039)
14 Aug 16
Guy doesn't like curves? What does he like then? Pencil
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• Pamplona, Spain
14 Aug 16
Probably that someone with that kind of figure but he should not be hurtful to the girl he could have been more polite than that for me.
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@shaggin (37817)
• United States
17 Aug 16
If he is not attracted to her then oh well there isn't anything either of them can do. They could always try being friends instead and seeing if they could get past the weight issues.
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• Pamplona, Spain
18 Aug 16
Don´t know really. Maybe they could be friends its a strange kind of set up they have there really but a few do become friends.
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@waflay (2727)
• Nairobi, Kenya
14 Aug 16
Too bad may be he has no sense of direction and do not what he wants in life.
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• Pamplona, Spain
14 Aug 16
I don´t think he knows what he wants either but he is rather vain too.
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@zarlamain (24884)
• United States
14 Aug 16
Maybe he wants to fall in love at first sight.
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• Pamplona, Spain
17 Aug 16
Love at first sight I believe it does happen but what do you do with someone who is too full of himself first? Don´t get me wrong its great to love yourself first and believe you are great but with greatness comes being polite, nice and educated and awareness of others of which well he might be sadly lacking.
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@zarlamain (24884)
• United States
17 Aug 16
@lovinangelsinstead21 He is better off being alone until his personality changes a bit then or maybe when he falls in love with someone, she will change his personality.
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• Pamplona, Spain
17 Aug 16
@zarlamain Hope its with someone who will be able to manage him well. Actually more or less the men in the program are the same.
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• United States
15 Nov 16
i reckon all're entitled to their own personal taste. if'n he's more concerned with 'curves', i'd send him packin'. some folks're jest way too shallow...'n miss out'n what's really important.
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• Pamplona, Spain
15 Nov 16
I would send him packing too after having children what would he expect then? Girl was too good for him she will find somebody better. She has plenty of curves like she should have and like I have. Have a great night.
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• United States
16 Nov 16
@lovinangelsinstead21 i'm thinkin' if'n folks looked more't the 'total package', there'd not be so much discontentment'n divorce. thanks, i hope the same fer yerself.
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• United States
16 Nov 16
@lovinangelsinstead21 so much stigma'n that 'perfect body', such jest saddens my heart. one'd think'n this day'n time such'd be a thingy 'f the past. yepperz, embrace those curves! we're all individuals 'n that's what makes's each special'n our own right. heck, i'd rather be beautiful'n the inside than gorgeous'n the outside with a hollow interior :)
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@DianneN (85355)
• United States
30 Dec 16
One shouldn't judge a book by its cover. His loss.
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• Pamplona, Spain
30 Dec 16
Indeed it was his loss. She is far too beautiful for someone like that who only seems to have a metric tape for measurements.
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@DianneN (85355)
• United States
30 Dec 16
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• Pamplona, Spain
31 Dec 16
@DianneN Thank you too. Wishing you a very Happy New Year ahead 2017.
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@CRK109 (14410)
• United States
3 Nov 16
I've always believed that the right people eventually find each other, so whenever a relationship didn't work out, or someone wasn't interested in me, I didn't mind. I just kept looking for the right person to come along. And, eventually, he did.
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• Pamplona, Spain
3 Nov 16
Me too really. I think that anyone who wants you just for your figure is not ideal at all. Real love takes time to find.
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@CRK109 (14410)
• United States
5 Nov 16
@lovinangelsinstead21 Yes, that's very true. And worth the wait.
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• Pamplona, Spain
5 Nov 16
@CRK109 i hope everyone finds their true love.
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@JudyEv (134904)
• Bunbury, Australia
8 Sep 16
Unless two people are attracted to each other, a relationship is never going to work.
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• Pamplona, Spain
9 Sep 16
Its really hard to tell whether any of them are really attracted to each other because of it being Television. In that media which is not very realistic people tend to be like him. I think he was and is only there for the Television and that´s about it. Five minutes of fame what a shame as she is really genuine and has plenty of her own style and I wish her lots of luck.
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@JudyEv (134904)
• Bunbury, Australia
10 Sep 16
@lovinangelsinstead21 Being on TV changes many people doesn't it? They act completely differently.
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• Pamplona, Spain
10 Sep 16
@JudyEv It does and I was watchin a preview of "Big Brother" of this year and the people taking part don´t really seem to know what they are getting into either. For better or for worse they will go through it all anyway. But they will be sure to change and a lot yes. Have a great week ahead.
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• Philippines
14 Aug 16
Maybe he gave this girl a favor that she might find some one better and save him the trouble of being dump in the future
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• Pamplona, Spain
14 Aug 16
Oh she will find someone better because she is a very pretty girl and a very nice figure and character too. She is a much better match for someone better for her. Take care Letran.
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• Philippines
17 Aug 16
@lovinangelsinstead21 He did love her in a way that he believes she deserves better, I admire people like that.
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• Pamplona, Spain
17 Aug 16
@Letranknight2015 He could have said it better though as there is way too much anorexia in this Country. He could have said I don´t think we could get on although you are very nice something discreet like that. She is a nice vivacious girl and not one bit overweight either. As we would say over here and if you understand Spanish "tu tampoco eres ningun cuadro" lol. Which means and saying it to that guy "you are no portrait yourself" lol. Take care.xxx
@marlina (78196)
• Canada
11 Jan 17
So I guess that man prefers to date "a stick".
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• Pamplona, Spain
11 Jan 17
It does look like that sometimes when I hear them say some pretty awful things to each other. He said she has too many curves I thought he was silly to say the least. Thank goodness that she does have curves like we have.
@bunnybon7 (37460)
• Holiday, Florida
14 Dec 16
i know. what you mean. some people men and women are so picky thay may never find a good partner no matter what. wasn't until i stopped just looking for handsome bad guys that i found the love of my life i was meant for all along and a precious nice guy everyone liked and made me love him because he treated me best
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• Pamplona, Spain
14 Dec 16
Just reading that bit about the Man you really fell in love with. That is so lovely I hope you were very happy with him too. Yay and he treated you like a Lady so romantic
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@SIMPLYD (83290)
• Philippines
2 Dec 16
The attraction he wants is of the physical thing . It is this kind of attraction that doesn't develop into a true love . A true love sees what's inside the heart of the person .
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• Pamplona, Spain
2 Dec 16
Yes that is so true and anyway I am so glad too that she had the sense to ignore him. She has got the right kind of figure and brains to go with it too. She very nicely put him in his place. However if I had been the presenter of the Program I would have told him off its just so uncalled for.
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@bunnybon7 (37460)
• Holiday, Florida
20 Aug 16
true. my oldest only wanted to have a really skinny woman. thought that was all there was. that's just dumb. finally he settled on a bit chunky gal and seemed happy until he started wanting her to loose weight also. now she is happy with someone that appreciates her and he is miserable with the one he got.
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• Pamplona, Spain
20 Aug 16
Its always us girls that has to lose weight lol say no more than that. Each of us has a shape which will not fit the typical fashion trend that´s going. I never once tried to do the impossible and try to fit into something four sizes smaller its so silly. Girl next door thinks that she is fat but she is`nt she has a build and a shape that she can improve on but that´s it for me. I can improve too I am trying but not to please anyone but me. Take care now.
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@Macarrosel (7540)
• Philippines
14 Aug 16
I am wondering really what's the reasons behind.
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• Pamplona, Spain
15 Aug 16
I think that he is just after another kind of girl that can bring him fame and money. Its all to do with a program you see. She is worth more than the others put together but fame and money I suppose makes the choice for him.
@Daljinder (22182)
• India
14 Aug 16
That guy needs re-evaluation of his own mind.
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• Pamplona, Spain
14 Aug 16
He does really. Its all to do with the Program he is in and she was in it too but she will be back as everyone likes her so does not matter if he leaves as soon as possible.
@sabtraversa (13331)
• Italy
14 Aug 16
I saw a story on Facebook. Well, this guy was afraid he wouldn't have performed well on bed because she wasn't physically attractive enough for him. I guess some men need some help in those circumstances. There isn't much we can do when nature kicks in. Well, a nature which is corrupted by beauty standards.
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• Pamplona, Spain
14 Aug 16
Well you do get all sorts and that is the way life is too.
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@epiffanie (10404)
• Australia
31 Dec 16
One day he might think of "the one that got away"...