Talking with each other is better than talking others

@ajithlal (14716)
India
August 19, 2016 11:28pm CST
Sometimes people goes around telling about someone all their faults and other things, but would never talk to the person. I do think it is good to talk to the person to fix the problems rather than to others.
6 people like this
10 responses
• Beijing, China
22 Aug 16
It does not matter to talk to someone about somebody else, whta counts is waht are we talking about. If it is harmless to others, that's OK, i think.
@rina110383 (24495)
21 Aug 16
I concur. That is the favorite activity of people with small minds.
@cherigucchi (14879)
• Philippines
20 Aug 16
That is true.
@LadyDuck (460236)
• Switzerland
20 Aug 16
I agree, gossiping about someone with the others is not a good practice.
• , New York
20 Aug 16
It seems like that all people do is complain about someone wrong doings.
• Philippines
20 Aug 16
I absolutely agree to that. If someone does not like what I did or if I accidentally did something wrong to anyone, I would like them to talk straight to me so that I will know and I can apologize if needed rather than talk behind my back just to start a conversation or something. That is why whenever my friends start talking negatively about someone, I would say "You should tell him/her that" and change the topic.
@dodo19 (47133)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
20 Aug 16
It is true. Talking can definitely help solve problems, and make things better.
@skysnap (20154)
20 Aug 16
I think talking is waste of activity I think.
@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
20 Aug 16
You're right. There is so much gossip and backstabbing. People don't know how to be direct, but we should figure it out.
@shivamani10 (11038)
• Hyderabad, India
20 Aug 16
yeah. I agree. I have recently happened to get a new friend. I just wanted him to tell something about my future giving the date of birth. He made some calculations and asked me tp put coral stone in a ring. He started finding fault with all others who appear on the Television and show people their talent in Astrology. My new friend went on telling 'this man did like that, he has done like that, this man is totally useless, this man gave wrong predictions and for that collected heavily'"..He goes on hammering in my ears. It has become a routine for him. One day I just got angry and told him "why don't you follow them, if you are more capable than those persons". He said "No, I am not a person like that".