Have you ever had two or more boyfriends / girlfriends at the same time?
By Knitting
@YesWay (3674)
August 21, 2016 5:24am CST
I have never dated two guys at the same time, but I have known people who have.
The girl next to me at work has been seeing three guys all at the same time, and none of them know about the others. I just couldn't deal with all the lying and sneaking around and having to remember what I had told whom.
She came in to work the other day, absolutely FURIOUS that she had found out that one of the guys was also seeing someone else behind her back.
I couldn't help but think she was getting a taste of her own medicine!
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
21 Aug 16
@rina110383, I noticed that you don't have any discussion under your belt.
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@rina110383 (24495)
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21 Aug 16
@marlina Yes. I agree with you.
Responding to other's discussion is easier to manage for me than creating & maintaining discussions.
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
21 Aug 16
Perhaps she is getting a taste of it. Seems to me people are attracted to other people of a same mind set?
I've always wondered what people think dating means. It could be anything from catching up with a friend, meeting with a work colleague, going to event for company or being intimate with someone. I guess that part is personal but it does define what dating means.1 person likes this
@arthurchappell (45002)
• Preston, England
21 Aug 16
The other way round for me - I dated a girl who I found out still had a steady boyfriend - I disliked being her 'bit on the side' - so I cut the relationship
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@YesWay (3674)
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23 Aug 16
@arthurchapell ouch that can't have been much fun for you
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@sabtraversa (12938)
• Italy
21 Aug 16
I don't think I can be in love with more than one person at the same time, so it's a no. 
Then yeah, it takes a lot of energy to deal with one partner, I couldn't bear with two. 
Three guys are too many, especially when they live in the same city, you can't pretend you're going to manage them all.
Then yeah, it takes a lot of energy to deal with one partner, I couldn't bear with two.
Three guys are too many, especially when they live in the same city, you can't pretend you're going to manage them all.1 person likes this
@YesWay (3674)
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23 Aug 16
@sabtraversa that's exactly the way I felt about it too. I just couldn't do it.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
25 Aug 16
I have a hard time biting my tounge around girls like that! I could never do that to someone!
@kevin1877uk (36988)
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22 Aug 16
LOL yeah, she is and it might make her think twice. No never dated two at the same time, trouble finding one to date to start with.
@Letranknight2015 (51523)
• Philippines
28 Aug 16
She has no HEART and no commitment because she was seeing three guys. Reminds me of that Filipina in singapore who was caught cheating with three middle eastern guys. They caught her and interrogate her while they beat her up a bit, I still have the video though. But base on the news, the guys were deported.
She doesn't love them, she's using them one at a time. I hope all the three guys would find some one better and dump this cheating woman on the spot.
ok. wait I found the video.
This two guys took a video with his girlfriend to humiliate her in public and said will post the video on youtube. The guy was apparently mad because he foun...
@williamjisir66 (594)
• Hangzhou, China
28 Aug 16
I had never had two girls at the same time, always one only. Like what you said, it is hard to deal with two or three for you cannot remember what you have said to one. Also it is not responsible for one to be in a relationship at such a situation. Problems will arise sooner or later. And then it will only make the matter worse, so it is not a clever way to adopt. Thanks for the discussion.
@sakinasaifee18 (575)
• Mumbai, India
22 Aug 16
One of my friends was dating four guys at the same time and they never found out. I don't know how can she do it when I can't handle even one relationship.
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
21 Aug 16
Yep. I was a player way back in elementary school. Never in my teen/adult years though. I'm now a one person kind of person.
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
21 Aug 16
Oh, its good Pinocchio is not a member here. There are reasons why sometimes you involved in love triangle.
@ms1864 (6886)
• Bangalore, India
21 Aug 16
I think that's a type of dating...though what I have heard of ...it has full disclosure. As in...until both the guy n girl agree to be exclusive...they are both allowed to date other people.
In this case though...doesn't look like this has been discussed by either one.
Oh..n I have never had 2 or more bf's at one time....i find having one is tedious enough.
