You are bug in my life code...

@Alosri (80)
Hyderabad, India
August 21, 2016 1:01pm CST
Everyone seems to have clear idea of how other people lead their lives but none his or her own[alchemist ] We live our life blaming others for our failure,mistake and faith.If something goes right we will be in first place to take credits but if same thing goes wrong we step behind and we pass that red hot balloon to others hands... I will give you some examples,.... 1. You're getting spoiled because of your friends circle,first leave their company.. 2. Your daughter is spending much time with that girl, she doesn't seems to have good character.. Talk to your daughter regarding this.. 3. Its because of my TL my code failed in production, she/he should have reviewed it properly. 4. He provoked me,that is why i fought with him. And my personal favourite.. 1. It is you who always run behind me, otherwise i would have never fallen in love with you.. 2. It is this mobile that is spoiling your life..throw it to dustbin He he... As of i understand, no body is responsible for anyone's mistake.It is you who took those decisions and your soley responsible for it.. Whether it is right or wrong... No one can stop you, if you really want to reach your goal,if you really want to follow your passion.. Nobody can make you hate someone if you already fallen in love.. Nobody can avoid you if you already choosed wrong path... So, Don't blame your friend if you're addicted to bad habits, Don't blame your ex,If you can't move on as they did. And last thing Don't blame your parents if you became engineer but not animator/actor......etc Finally, It is you who is responsible for your faith,mistake, failure,success and your decision too... No one is bug in your life program because it is you who developed it...... What you think??do we need to blame others for our mistake..share your thoughts in comment...
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@TheHorse (208389)
• Walnut Creek, California
21 Aug 16
Psychologists have a name for that--beneffectance. It's ego-enhancing to take credit for the good and blame others for our failures. But if we can step away from our egos, perhaps we can see more balance in the world.
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@Alosri (80)
• Hyderabad, India
21 Aug 16
Hi..thanks for your information. I didn't even know that we have a name for this. yes your correct..
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
21 Aug 16
Lol well, some people are great at blaming others that they make a great career out of it! Politicians and lawyers! So erm lets get good at the skill shall we? ;)
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@Drosophila (16573)
• Ireland
23 Aug 16
@Alosri no I am just pointing out these people make a great living blaming others. It's not a blame in itself, there is no "x is their fault" in my statement, thus doesn't consititue as a blame.
@Alosri (80)
• Hyderabad, India
24 Aug 16
@Drosophila ha ha.... Whatever you told is true.. hope they get well soon .....
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@Alosri (80)
• Hyderabad, India
23 Aug 16
Again ur blaming layers and politicians...lol..
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@Bluedoll (16774)
• Canada
22 Aug 16
Can you figure out my code because my problem might not be the blame game but reality? @Alosri but perhaps that is not your job. I am a small sub program in larger program that is already corrupt and buggy. Somehow others faults mess my life up because well a crash is a crash right? I like your thoughts here.
@Alosri (80)
• Hyderabad, India
23 Aug 16
Your problem is really confusing me... Any way all the best.... I hope u ll remove all your bugs and save ur life from crash
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@sabtraversa (13097)
• Italy
21 Aug 16
That's a nice similitude. Maybe. First of all, we are unexperienced programmers. Then, what about hackers attacking our script? That was our fault because we made a vulnerable program, but these people will always find a way to be more efficient. I only blame others when it makes sense. Otherwise I blame the destiny.
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@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
21 Aug 16
I do think it's very human to make excuses. The most content people though are the ones who take responsibility.If you do that, then you can relax and rejoice in your accomplishment.
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• Dhaka, Bangladesh
21 Aug 16
titile is very nice..eye catching
@Alosri (80)
• Hyderabad, India
21 Aug 16
Thanks ....
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