how can you forgive someone who cheated on you?

United Arab Emirates
August 22, 2016 3:15pm CST
How can you recover from the fact that they cheated on you? Can you really get back into a relationship with them and expect that it can be a good, healthy, and successful relationship? Is forgiving them possible when you have to live with something as bad as being cheated on?
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Sky
@skysnap (20154)
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22 Aug 16
you don't .. you move on.
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snehakeshri
@snehakeshri (449)
• Mumbai, India
23 Aug 16
i will like to move on without caring for him
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DnkH
@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
23 Aug 16
It's the hardest thing, isn't it? I usually go with "Forgive but never forget". Because the one that once cheated you can cheat you again and again. After something like this happened, it's very hard to take that relationship back to where it was.
Deymit
@pestengbata (180)
• United Arab Emirates
23 Aug 16
Exactly. And cant understand how and why. I was so confident that she's different and never did came to my mind that she'll do it. I trust her and she broke it. Not only my trust but also my heart and soul.
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DnkH
@DnkHrth (268)
• Sri Lanka
23 Aug 16
@pestengbata I understand your situation. Just let things flaw for a while. Time really is the cure. So just be patient. I know this is easy to me to say and how difficult it is to you to keep yourself together. But the way of patience is the only way I know.
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Sue H.
@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
22 Aug 16
You can't really forget it, even once you say you forgive. I wouldn't go on with that relationship.
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Laurel (L_B)
@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
22 Aug 16
You can forgive for your own peace of mine but you will never forget. Your relationship is never be the same again. Once the trust is broken it is hard for a relationship to grow. It is a personal choice to stay or leave but staying is just as hard as leaving. If you leave you can start to move on with your life. If you leave you have to relive it over and over again.
Deymit
@pestengbata (180)
• United Arab Emirates
22 Aug 16
So depressed.
Laurel (L_B)
@Happy2BeMe (99399)
• Canada
22 Aug 16
@pestengbata I know you are. Ithe I'd such a hard thing to deal with.
emelsmarie
@EMbakes (1142)
• Philippines
6 Sep 16
If it still bothers you, then don't force yourself because you'll end up hurting yourself. You just have to accept the fact that they're not meant for you. #moveon
LK2018
@Letranknight2015 (51532)
• Philippines
22 Aug 16
You just can't. but time heals specially if you find some one better./