Today was a bad day
By mirandalee
@mirandalee (154)
China
August 30, 2016 8:57am CST
I am very depressed today,I realized that I didn't work hard enough,I just want to play,In fact, there are a lot of things need to be addressed. I often put myself in a passive position ,I feel terrible.I can no longer think of myself as a child,a student, I need to prepare adequately for the future.
I must have a plan of life,At least I should finish my thesis ahead.then i can have time to find a job.so I want to give myself a time limit. I must complete the first draft of a paper end of November.Self discipline!!
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10 responses
@mirandalee (154)
• China
30 Aug 16
I believe i can ,but too lazy and lack of discipline,I know my weaknesses,The next step is to overcome
@Happy2BeMe (99392)
• Canada
30 Aug 16
If you set your mind to it there is nothing that you can't accomplish. You just have to be disciplined.
@mirandalee (154)
• China
31 Aug 16
Thanks to your encouragement and advice,L_B.
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@arintellect007 (533)
• Kolkata, India
30 Aug 16
As long as you have proper planning in mind, you need not worry so much about future,just stick to it.
@mirandalee (154)
• China
30 Aug 16
Tahnk u Aridom Ghosh .My mentor told me that I am not urging you to make paper ,I hope you have time to plan your future life.she is right .
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@arintellect007 (533)
• Kolkata, India
30 Aug 16
@mirandalee Never mind,just give more attention to your thesis paper & try to keep your mentor happy as far as possible.That's important i guess.
@LuciCJ (197)
• Cluj-Napoca, Romania
30 Aug 16
Don't feel depressed, it will only make your work harder! What you need is to establish some goals, as @lealuvy2j said and what I would add, a reward for your efforts. So for instance if you establish that you need to write 5 pages/day - which is totally feasible, I ascertain you - you may set as goal that then you will get your reward. This may be anything from eating your favorite chocolate to going out for a walk or viewing your favorite youtube channel. But you must allow yourself that pleasure only after you complete that goal. This way you'll see that each day instead of feeling depressed you will feel motivated by the perspective of getting your small treat. Good luck with your thesis!
@mirandalee (154)
• China
30 Aug 16
I really want to give you a hug Luci Cj ,although we not know each other ,But I feel very comfortable.Thank you and thank you all.I'm going to sleep now,oversleeping is not a good place to start.good night
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@lealuvy2j (1986)
• Philippines
30 Aug 16
You can do it! We mylotters are cheering for you. It is good that you are setting a deadline for your goals. Goals should be S.M.A.R.T.: Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant and Time- bound.
@mirandalee (154)
• China
30 Aug 16
Your advice is very good, timely,Very fair,thank you so much ,Lealuvy2j,that's very kind of you .
@mirandalee (154)
• China
30 Aug 16
Thank you for your trust,I will.i hope you can be my supervisor.
@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
30 Aug 16
Well, give yourself a break. You're also young, and it's only normal that young people want to play, too. You'll be fine.
