Don't give up because of Friendzone!

Oradea, Romania
August 30, 2016 4:39pm CST
Hello guys I don't know what time it is in your country but in mine it's 11 pm and I thought that I'll share with you one of my personal experience with the problem called Friendzone. So I met my crush when I was 15 years old and I literally falled in love at first sight. I was madly in love with her. Most of you guys know that feeling when you are in love with someone and you know that she's or he's the one that you waited for Sooooo long. So I first tried to be her friend and then I confessed to her. What I didn't knew was that she had someone who loves but I heard about it after I confessed to her. Back to confession. After I told her how I feel she told me "I care about you but I don't think it will work "at that moment my heart was destroyed. I felt so much pain. But I smiled and said "it's okay, I understand you " And after a week she was in a relationship with that boy. Even if she rejected me, I stayed by her side and gave her advice and things like that. But my heart was still broken and I felt so much pain because I encouraged her to be with that guy because I wanted her to be happy event if it's not with me, so I stayed, I kept all the suffering and the pain in me . Guys even if you are friendzoned please don't give up. If you really love that girl you should stay by her side, you should make her happy. If you stay by her side you prove her that you really care about her and her happiness and believe me that means a lot for the girls. So back to my story : Now this is the good part of the story :after about 2 or 3 months they broke up . When they broke up I was there, comforting her, giving her a shoulder to cry on. In my mind I was so happy because they broke up. But I felt a little bit of pain because I saw her so sad and o I told her that if she wants maybe I could get them back together. But she didn't want and I was so happy of that answer. After a month from the broke up thing, the girl got me out from friendzone. I don't know why but I think because I was there when she needed to and I've always tried to make her smile. And after 2 weeks I was in a relationship with her. Believe me I was so happy. The entire world changed . Now we are still in a relationship and we are very happy. Guys/girls even if your crush rejected you, please don't give up. Be at her/his side. Try to make them happy, encourage them. Be at their side when they need you. Don't give up on someone you love just because he or she rejected you. Maybe it won't be easy but believe me it will worth it! GUYS PROVE THE ONE YOU LOVE THAT YOU ARE WORTHY, PROVE HER THAT YOU ARE A GOOD MAN. PROVE HER THAT YOU CAN BE AT HER SIDE ANYTIME SHE NEEDS YOU. GUYS DON'T LET THE GIRL YOU LIKE DOWN. GUYS/GIRLS PROVE THE ONE YOU LOVE AND REJECTED YOU, THAT THEY'RE WRONG PROVE THEM WRONG. PROVE THEM THAT YOU'RE CAPABLE OF DOING GREAT THINGS. GUYS PROVE HER THAT YOU LOVE HER EVEN IF SHE REJECTED YOU. MAKE HER BELIEVE IN YOU! P.S : (If you had any experience like mine and you want to share it please use the tag #PROVETHEMWRONG)
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@CinnamonGrl (7083)
• Santa Fe, New Mexico
30 Aug 16
Well, just don't become a stalker. That's what it means to some guys when you say "don't give up." LOL. If someone wants space, you have to give it to them.
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• Oradea, Romania
30 Aug 16
Yeah, but if you love someone you just approach them by being friend. And all that I said there is if you are a friend with that girl. If you're not that means you or 1. Haven't confessed yet and you can't talk to her because of emotions that you have or 2. Literally you're a stalker lol ??
@anushady (549)
• Addis Ababa, Ethiopia
31 Aug 16
Dont give up men. And start do something good with ur life. Trust me she will come crawling back to you.
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• Calgary, Alberta
30 Aug 16
I wont force my self to someone who see me as a friend. I will rather learn to love someone who loves me for who I am. I am glad it works for you.
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• Oradea, Romania
31 Aug 16
Ty . Well , it.s your choice .
@shaggin (71681)
• United States
31 Aug 16
I have a guy friend who was there for me though so much but there is no way I would want a relationship with him those feelings just aren't there. I think you were one of the lucky ones who made it out of the friendzone.
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@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
30 Aug 16
Glad it all worked out for you and the love of your life.
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• Oradea, Romania
30 Aug 16
Thanks. (:
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