Are you afraid of being alone?..

@epiffanie (11326)

• Australia

5 Sep 16

@JudyEv .. yes we need solitude once in a while ..

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@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

It seems that your are an inner people.

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Judy Evans

@JudyEv (326098)

• Rockingham, Australia

5 Sep 16

@MattMeng Yes, I think I'm an introvert.

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Jabo

@jaboUK (64361)

• United Kingdom

4 Sep 16

I like being alone - no-one to consider but myself.

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@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

But sometimes you would feel lonely.

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@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

@jaboUK Perhaps you are an inner people.

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Jabo

@jaboUK (64361)

• United Kingdom

5 Sep 16

@MattMeng No, not me - I'm quite happy with my own company.

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Erly Maglangit

@cacay1 (83220)

• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines

4 Sep 16

Yes, sometimes it's deafening hehehe. I am not used to be alone, so whenever I am alone, I am afraid.

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Joy

@PurnaSharma (2557)

• Guwahati, India

5 Sep 16

Call me i will be right there..he he he

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@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

Perhaps you should take more exercise.

@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

@PurnaSharma It is so long from India to Philippines.

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Shiva

@Shiva49 (26215)

• Singapore

5 Sep 16

I like to be alone at times; being alone but don't feel lonely. Then we can have time to ponder about life with calm demeanor - siva

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vanny

@vandana7 (98909)

• India

5 Sep 16

Irony is, to feel lonely we need another person in our life..lol. If we don't, we are still fine. Only one that person we have in our life does not give due attention to us, we feel lonely. But why do we give others so much importance at all. God is more permanent.

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vanny

@vandana7 (98909)

• India

5 Sep 16

@Shiva49 .. True...and we also love some more than the others, but unless we maintain things in perspective it can be extremely shocking. Focusing only on one person, I mean...loving parents, children, spouses, grandchildren, siblings, and friends...somehow it balances things...but if a person was to love only one person...it can be very shocking if there is loss, or neglect.

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Shiva

@Shiva49 (26215)

• Singapore

5 Sep 16

@vandana7 We are social animals, so we need some company. We should not depend only on another but on collective humanity that represents our creator. The connection with God is at another level. For me, our Creator is in His creations, that is everywhere we are not even aware of - siva

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John Roberts

@JohnRoberts (109857)

• Los Angeles, California

4 Sep 16

Being an only child, I am used to being alone and treasure that time. Not married, no children, only an elderly mother so you could say I am doomed.

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vanny

@vandana7 (98909)

• India

5 Sep 16

No you are not...you can still find somebody...if that is what you like. I am an only child, I am also used to being alone and I also "treasure" that time. I also have an elderly parent who is 83 years old now...losing him does scare me. But I tell me, if he goes he and mom will prepare a nice home for me to land into up there.

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@epiffanie (11326)

• Australia

5 Sep 16

@JohnRoberts .. being alone does not make you 'doomed' .. I know a few people who are happy and content with being single with no children .. and I know of some people who are married with children yet they are the most unhappy people ..

@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

Everyone should get married.

Thelma

@thelme55 (76481)

• Germany

4 Sep 16

No, I am not afraid to be alone. I mostly want to be alone when I am concentrating what to write.

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@epiffanie (11326)

• Australia

5 Sep 16

@thelme55 yes, it better to be alone while writing .. thought at the moment I am here in my studio trying to concentrate and my husband is here too watching tele .. I can't concentrate ..

@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

Yes, that would be quiet.

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Joy

@PurnaSharma (2557)

• Guwahati, India

5 Sep 16

I'm afraid of being alone,so i always pray god to take me away before take away anybody else from my family.

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@epiffanie (11326)

• Australia

5 Sep 16

@MattMeng Yes indeed, we must accept wholeheartedly the law of nature ..

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@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

@epiffanie Yes, it is. There are very little things we could control.

@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

In some cases, the separate of family member is a natural law, and we should accept it.

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jaishankar

@else34 (13517)

• New Delhi, India

4 Sep 16

@epiffanie,No,I don't.Many times I have lived alone in my and others' houses.I have spent days in huts located amidst jungles.I enjoy being alone..

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@epiffanie (11326)

• Australia

5 Sep 16

@else34 .. wow! you are very adventurous ..that's fantastic! ..

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@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

It seems that you are an inner person.

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jaishankar

@else34 (13517)

• New Delhi, India

7 Sep 16

@MattMeng I love jungles and wildlife.

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Sharon

@simone10 (54189)

• Louisville, Kentucky

4 Sep 16

No, I am definitely not afraid of being alone. I am alone with my two dogs every day during the week until my brother comes home. There are times he goes out with friends at night or goes out of town and I am okay being alone.

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@epiffanie (11326)

• Australia

5 Sep 16

@simone10 .. yes, our pets are good companions ..

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@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

You are lucky, dogs are friends of our people.

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Sharon

@simone10 (54189)

• Louisville, Kentucky

5 Sep 16

@MattMeng Yes, they are really great companions.

Susan

@HazySue (39264)

• Gouverneur, New York

4 Sep 16

@epiffanie I like being alone. I find time to commune with myself, gather my thoughts.

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@epiffanie (11326)

• Australia

5 Sep 16

Yes, aloneness can do us good ;)

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@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

Exactly, stay alone would help you to think things in a quiet environment, but if the time is too long, it would be bad for you.

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Susan

@HazySue (39264)

• Gouverneur, New York

6 Sep 16

@MattMeng you need to be able to have a balance in life.

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Lena Kovadlo

@lovebuglena (43081)

• Staten Island, New York

5 Sep 16

I am alone often and when being alone I get taken over by loneliness and emptiness. Not a great feeling.

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@epiffanie (11326)

• Australia

5 Sep 16

@lovebuglena Maybe you just need to do something that would make you happy whenever you find yourself alone, that way you won't feel empty .. Emptiness can lead to depression ..

@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

That's a good method to avoid feeling lonely.

Lena Kovadlo

@lovebuglena (43081)

• Staten Island, New York

5 Sep 16

@epiffanie I try to keep myself busy with things I like... but sometimes get tired of them too.

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Bhem

@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

4 Sep 16

I'm afraid of being alone but I like to be alone sometimes. Like I can have my own peace when I am alone.

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@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

Yes, when we stay lone for a quiet time, we could do something effective.

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@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

@JustBhem Yes, it is, there is no people disturb us.

Bhem

@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Sep 16

@MattMeng Also we can think of anything we like.

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Ritu

@Ritu96 (897)

• Sonipat, India

4 Sep 16

most of the time i am alone....doing my work.

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@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

Perhaps you have accepted these conditions.

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Ritu

@Ritu96 (897)

• Sonipat, India

5 Sep 16

@MattMeng

Ritu

@Ritu96 (897)

• Sonipat, India

5 Sep 16

@MattMeng yes,because it's better to be alone then with cheats

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Sakina

@sakinasaifee18 (575)

• Mumbai, India

4 Sep 16

This is accurate. People may want to be alone for some times, but no one wants to be lonely. They are different things. It is human nature to crave love, affection and understanding.

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@MattMeng (3438)

• Hangzhou, China

5 Sep 16

Yes, I think so, the natural of people is to live together.