Could you control your habits that hurts you?

By Joy
Guwahati, India
September 6, 2016 1:56pm CST
Sometimes we can't control our some habit after our repeated attempts though it's hurt. Sometimes i go through a depression, why i couldn't control my habit though it isn't a bad habit virtually. Everyone says to be polite is good,but in mine case it beats me.I'm very polite with my subordinate and younger ones,now they got so courage,they even don't hesitate to say anything to me.Basically, these things aren't use to say in such relation. You all might think,they say so because i let them doing so saying similar but believe i never had used to say anything like that,just that my politeness which gradually let them to doing these. Image from www.orchidrecoverycenter.com
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Anne W
@justplaingirl (69)
• Philippines
6 Sep 16
I can't control my habit of over thinking which depresses me.
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Joy
@PurnaSharma (2557)
• Guwahati, India
7 Sep 16
How you overcome the situation.
Joy
@PurnaSharma (2557)
• Guwahati, India
7 Sep 16
@justplaingirl ,good idea to get rid of depression but how far this works on.
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Anne W
@justplaingirl (69)
• Philippines
7 Sep 16
@PurnaSharma honestly it's hard cause it's on my mind. Sometimes I just distract myself from thinking about it like doing something I enjoy.
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Anna
@LadyDuck (458976)
• Switzerland
7 Sep 16
I am also polite, but I let no one to use a rude language with me. To be polite does not mean to accept that people step on you. Tell them that from now on you are not going to accept anymore this kind of manners.
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Joy
@PurnaSharma (2557)
• Guwahati, India
7 Sep 16
There are something that not seem rude to others but it hurts me and both of we know it hurts me(the person who said and me).But i couldn't say anything because those who say, they are my juniors or subordinates,definitely they do so by being in limit.
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Jabo
@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
8 Sep 16
If people are disrespecting you, you need to make them see it's unacceptable.
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M.-L.
@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
6 Sep 16
Can't you tell them that in future you won't allow this kind of language? You must be firm, so that they know you're serious.
Joy
@PurnaSharma (2557)
• Guwahati, India
6 Sep 16
Yes that is the thing i'm not firm and i couldn't be ..i don't no why.
M.-L.
@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
6 Sep 16
@PurnaSharma One can learn that. Talk to someone who is firm and ask for some tricks. I was a teacher for 40 years and I can tell you that young people don't love weak personalities. It only appears to be the case. They appreciate if someone tells them what is what and that there are rules which must be obeyed and which are not open to discussion. Your post is very vague. What kind of establishment are you writing about? What is your job?
Joy
@PurnaSharma (2557)
• Guwahati, India
7 Sep 16
@MALUSE ..to go in precise it takes time.I'm not of weak personality,i'm firm in the sense that i'm very responsive,very descriptive,so anybody could easily go through me and my heart.But do you know,those who do talk less,people afraid of talking with them.Do you say to these peoples of firm personality?
ingrid
@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
7 Sep 16
i trust people, but whn they do something not trusting, i immediately get cold on them
ARM
@responsiveme (22926)
• India
7 Sep 16
Habits are difficult to control:(
Joy
@PurnaSharma (2557)
• Guwahati, India
7 Sep 16
Definitely,so we have to think before talk.
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