I just wanted to find out why a man stops loving a woman/

Allendale, Michigan
September 11, 2016 12:02am CST
This question has been on my mind for a long time. I have never gotten a straight answer from any man. I would like to know if anyone would have an answer or an idea about this question
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@sammyy (254)
• Bangalore, India
11 Sep 16
Most of the time, people change. When a man first falls in love with a woman, he values some aspects about her...maybe that she is free-spirited, or maybe that she is patient, or maybe that she is smart and up-to-date with all important on-goings of the world, or that she is talkative, or her looks like long hair, slim build etc. But not every person remains the same forever. Not just your looks but your traits also change or at least get tweaked with time. The woman might cut her hair short with the changing trends, or put on some extra weight. Maturity may make her less talkative as she grows. Family may make her less free-spirited and more responsible than before. Kids throwing tantrums may make her less patient than before. Family responsibilities may make her busy and she may not have enough time for herself and she would not be able to update her knowledge about the recent changes in the world. These are just few examples, i could think of. But the point i wish to make here is that 'people change'. And most of the times the value, the women had in the eyes of the man, comes down or vanishes altogether. The reason he fell for her is now lost. Hence, love ceases to exist. And he start finding all kinds of faults in her. Her tiny, simple mistakes now get highlighted in his view. And there is no more reason left in him, to love her. Another alternative explanation could be that, being with the same person since ages may make the significant other bored and somewhat saturated with the monotonous lifestyle they are leading. And this saturation converts into irritation, which in turn becomes frustration. And in that frustration, men find even the woman's qualities that they fell in love with, very much annoying. And here comes dislike and disrespect.
@thelme55 (14574)
• Germany
19 Sep 16
Very well said and I agree with you @sammyy
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@sammyy (254)
• Bangalore, India
19 Sep 16
@thelme55 thank you for reading such a long comment...and also for agreeing with it..
@jayaramas (1358)
• Bangalore, India
11 Sep 16
your question is wrong. That is why you cannot get the answer. No good man stops loving. Definition of love changes from age to age and so you are getting confused. A teenage love is different from old age love.
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• India
11 Sep 16
But there's nothing about good and bad in his question it was just very normal...what you said is exactly true...but it doesn't show up in all cases
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• Philippines
11 Sep 16
committment. I think that person failed to commit himself to the woman he married or to the girlfriend that he has. Without commitment is like taking out the protection that you have for someone. God commits himself to love us forever.
@responsiveme (16502)
• India
11 Sep 16
Sorry, no idea...guess there isn't just one single rule.
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@EddieHands (37845)
• United States
11 Sep 16
I am not sure. They say people fall out of love and things like that. Still think both men and women fall out of love maybe. Meow
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@just4him (117513)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Sep 16
I wish I knew the answer to that as well.
@simone10 (21657)
• Louisville, Kentucky
24 Sep 16
I don't think there is an overall answer for everyone. It depends on the people and the circumstances involved.
@silvermist (20100)
• India
21 Sep 16
@sapphire556 Is this a general question? The answer will differ according to who the man and woman are.
@thelme55 (14574)
• Germany
19 Sep 16
There are many factors to consider why a man stopped loving his woman. Every man has its own reason. Could be that he has another woman.
@jaboUK (54057)
• United Kingdom
12 Sep 16
I don't think there is a general answer to this question - it depends entirely on the people concerned. It happens the other way round too - a woman stops loving a man.