Uncertain Life

@mavlana (1019)
India
September 17, 2016 3:01am CST
The most interesting fact about life is that, it's totally uncertain. Nowadays, my life is on different track. I am discussing about marriage. Was always against marriage as I thinks it as the most ridiculous concept in the world. Still, my marriage is not fixed only disscussion are going on Feeling bit stressed and confused.
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@princemaxp (2027)
• Bhubaneshwar, India
17 Sep 16
same here....my parents are also looking for bride but I don't like marriage !!!
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@mavlana (1019)
• India
17 Sep 16
Aww...that's so sad....but don't worry. It isn't that scary....lol. I can console and guide you, if needed..hehe
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@mavlana (1019)
• India
18 Sep 16
@princemaxp Me too is interested in that plan.
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• Bhubaneshwar, India
17 Sep 16
@mavlana are you trying to frighten me...I am not marrying any one.....i have got some plan
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
18 Sep 16
Just follow your gut instinct when it comes to marriage .. wishing you all the best..
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@epiffanie (11326)
• Australia
21 Sep 16
@mavlana good for you!
@mavlana (1019)
• India
19 Sep 16
yeah...I am looking forward to it...Thank you
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@skysnap (20154)
17 Sep 16
lot of things in life are uncertain and they don't happen.
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@mavlana (1019)
• India
17 Sep 16
Wish so....lol
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@digiguru (557)
• Bangalore, India
18 Sep 16
Such things are always out of control.. Marriage is not always wrong decision.. Life should have happiness as well as sadness. But how you define them, that depends
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@mavlana (1019)
• India
18 Sep 16
You said very well but I think it also depends on the personalities of two persons.
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@sammyy (527)
• India
19 Sep 16
Same pinch...I'm going through the same uncertain phase of my life. All studies done, arranged marriage...a must. Not particularly in love with anybody, and not even against getting married. People at home searching for an alliance. But I too had plans. I had many dreams to fulfil. But they won't just let me stay unmarried forever and pursue my goals, right! So its finally declared that who ever you get married to, if they allow you then go ahead and fulfil your plans. If they don't allow, then oblige them. And, now its the waiting period until some alliance gets fixed. So I don't know whether I should work towards accomplishing my plans, or wait for that permission which I will get post marriage. Because, I don't like disappointments so I don't want to prepare now and give up altogether later, if denied. So just waiting and wasting my time. Uncertainty....uurrggghh!!!
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@mavlana (1019)
• India
19 Sep 16
Ahh...that's seriously bad. ...I hate marriage because of this, but with God's grace I am getting very understanding, loving and caring hubby....wish you the best.
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@mavlana (1019)
• India
20 Sep 16
@sammyy yeah...but still our marriage isn't fixed....we decided to spend some time to know each other.
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@sammyy (527)
• India
19 Sep 16
@mavlana that's awesome...happy for you, girl. Thank you so much and good luck with your future, too.. May you stay blessed and happy
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@princemaxp (2027)
• Bhubaneshwar, India
21 Sep 16
weel let us know when marriage is fixed...so that we will be there to attend
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@mavlana (1019)
• India
21 Sep 16
hehe...not yet.I'm not in hurry to get married.
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• Bhubaneshwar, India
21 Sep 16
@mavlana that's good...
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
17 Sep 16
Why do you feel stressed and confused?
@mavlana (1019)
• India
17 Sep 16
Because all the discussions are irritating me..boy is good. What yhe hell I can do of good boy...I enjoy aloneness.
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
18 Sep 16
@mavlana So the thing is you are currently not ready for marrying someone.
@mavlana (1019)
• India
19 Sep 16
@shubhu3 Not exactly
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@Ritu96 (897)
• Sonipat, India
17 Sep 16
hahaaha..i got laugh because i have seen my sisters marriage and how it was fixed
@mavlana (1019)
• India
17 Sep 16
Share your experience.
@mavlana (1019)
• India
17 Sep 16
@Ritu96 hehe...marriage should be named as horrible.
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@Ritu96 (897)
• Sonipat, India
17 Sep 16
@mavlana my parents met at least 100 guys and then they selected one..it was horrible
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@CoolPeace (1566)
• Miami, Florida
18 Sep 16
As you get older you changes your views on certain things.
@mavlana (1019)
• India
19 Sep 16
yeah...I agree but I don't believe in changing myself for anyone and others for me.
@CoolPeace (1566)
• Miami, Florida
19 Sep 16
@mavlana I agree.
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@XinfulThotz (4140)
• Singapore, Singapore
17 Sep 16
@mavlana is your marriage arranged marriage? why is there a discussion? with who?
@mavlana (1019)
• India
17 Sep 16
@XinfulThotz I didn't get your point. Can you please explain
@mavlana (1019)
• India
17 Sep 16
yeah..as my parents know I can never find one for me. Discussions among families.
• Singapore, Singapore
17 Sep 16
@mavlana awwwwww is wrong with not getting married???!