Grunts AKA Thanks, Hon!
@1creekgirl (40523)
United States
September 28, 2016 12:44pm CST
My husband is a preacher and for many years was a negotiator and president of his Union at work.
But do you think that trait of verbosity translates to our communication? Ha!
I've learned over the years (and they are many) that when I serve our dinner, if it looks good, he says, "Uhhh.' If I don't hear a grunt, he doesn't complain, but neither do I hear "Uhhh."
I know some of you women are thinking, "That's the last meal I'd ever cook for him!"
I probably have given the wrong impression of my husband. Even though he's not big on articulate compliments, he and I have wonderful, meaningful conversations.
Just not usually at dinner time.
Photo is my husband and myself with our grandsons in Charleston SC.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Sep 16
First of all that picture is so nice . You and your husband is sow sweet . It seems you and your grandsons have same way of being sweet while walking .
As to that of your husband saying Uhh . I think most men aren't that expressive in word with what they feel . Just take a look at how he eats with gusto what you have cooked and you will know that he finds it delicious .
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@1creekgirl (40523)
• United States
29 Sep 16
Thanks, that photo was taken when we were in Charleston, SC for our 50th anniversary. My husband really is a great guy.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
29 Sep 16
@1creekgirl Wow , 50th anniversary . My mother and father is already on their 56th i think .
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@1creekgirl (40523)
• United States
29 Sep 16
@SIMPLYD Tell them congratulations for me...that's a long time together.
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@FayeHazel (40248)
• United States
29 Sep 16
That's so cute. Maybe the reason he doesn't verbalize much at dinner is because of all the communicating he does during the day...
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@1creekgirl (40523)
• United States
29 Sep 16
He's retired now although he does preach frequently. I think he was raised not having much conversation at dinner so I understand. He's really a very wonderful husband, we put up with each other!
@kumbarn14 (735)
• Pakistan
28 Sep 16
It must be so difficult for your husband to maintain his position as a human being. We human beings are selfish, sometime we forget to think so. What a big responsibility on his shoulders to be perfect.
Our husbands are the light of our house without him it will be a ghost house. You know I have comprised so much in life to make my home a happy home. When the whole family have meals together it is so wonderful. Amen.
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