overpampering v/s struggle

Agra, India
October 2, 2016 8:48pm CST
These days the concept of raising the kids has completely changed.... Compared to previous times now there are only 1or 2 kids in the family and each is given full and complete attention and their demands are fulfilled at utmost priority.... All that I feel is this is making the kids weak and dependant... Make them learn to earn what they want.. What do you believe in. Over pampering or preparing the kids to struggle for themselves....
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****DANIELLE****
@VivaLaDani13 (60825)
• Perth, Australia
9 Feb 20
@amitkokiladitya I do believe that if you pamper children too much or do so much for a child, they are more likely to grow up not learning how to be independent. May also be a bit ungrateful too if they are used to having everything done for them and not learning what work is.
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Kokil agarwal
@amitkokiladitya (171925)
• Agra, India
10 Feb 20
Yes...it is all for them and because of the.
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Judy Evans
@JudyEv (357094)
• Rockingham, Australia
3 Oct 16
There is probably a middle ground here somewhere but pampering children is not the best way to bring up strong adults.
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Kokil agarwal
@amitkokiladitya (171925)
• Agra, India
3 Oct 16
Hunting that middle ground is very difficult as it has no boundaries
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