In a relationship ...facebook official
@shaggin (71671)
United States
November 20, 2016 8:41am CST
If you read my previous posts over the past month or two you might remember that the guy I was dating for 1 yr and 8 months would not put me on facebook as his girlfriend and was not taking me to a wedding so I broke up with him.
He wanted to get back together and has been trying to show me that and plan a future together moving into a larger house so we will be able to be together every day not just once a week. Thats a pretty scary thought for me moving out of my home.
Last night his son and he came over and spent the night. His son and I were making cookies with the Country Crock spread I got free to test out from Influenster.
While I was baking the cookies he told me he changed it to show on facebook that he is in a relationship. So I changed mine as well. I am happy about this as it is what I wanted for him to admit to everyone that we are together.
We got a light dusting of snow while we slept so it is a pretty sight to have woken up to. I attached a photo of my lilacs with snow on them.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
I'm glad he changed the status, I know that would be important to me too.
@shaggin (71671)
• United States
20 Nov 16
The only issue I have is that while my post basically tagged him so people saw who he is in a relationship with he only changed his to say in a relationship not who it is with. I told him he had to approve it so mine could say (on my profile) who I am in a relationship but I don't think he is going to approve it. Theres always something...
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@shaggin (71671)
• United States
20 Nov 16
@LovingMyBabies Thats why I was upset about him not willing to change his relationship status to begin with. This is progress I feel its just baby steps I have to take with him.
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@LovingMyBabies (85127)
• Valdosta, Georgia
20 Nov 16
@shaggin Is he scared of the commitment or embarrassed to be with you? That is what would be going through my mind. =( Why else wouldn't he want to announce to the world of who he's with?
@infatuatedbby (94921)
• United States
20 Nov 16
Congrats I hope it works out this time around :) He's showing progress! Beautiful photo
@kevinakash (2084)
• Sri Lanka
20 Nov 16
i'm very much happy that everything finally changed in the best way.
Hope you will have a nice time together.
Best of luck !!!!
@shaggin (71671)
• United States
20 Nov 16
Thank you. I think this is the first step for me to be able to start believing what he wants for our future.
@crazyhorseladycx (39515)
• United States
21 Nov 16
beautiful, but chilled me to the bone 't such a sight. i hope that all goes well with yer relationship, hon. y'ave got way more patience than myself. big hugs!
@crazyhorseladycx (39515)
• United States
22 Nov 16
@shaggin the latter i fear. young'uns're way more honest'n fella's any ol' day.
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@Happy2BeMe (99390)
• Canada
20 Nov 16
Sounds like things are moving ahead for you two. That is wonderful. Glad he changes the status on his FB I know that meant a lot to you.
@Happy2BeMe (99390)
• Canada
22 Nov 16
@shaggin yes especially where he didn't before. That is a big thing for him and yes he definitely loves you..
@Tina30219 (81536)
• Onaway, Michigan
20 Nov 16
Beautiful picture. That is awesome that he finally changed his facebook status. Awesome you got something to tedtput from influenster I never get nothing from them.
@shaggin (71671)
• United States
22 Nov 16
I used to get things a lot more from Influenster when I first signed up.
@shaggin (71671)
• United States
20 Nov 16
Thank you. I did not sleep well as usual when he is here. I so used to my daughter sleeping next to me that when he does instead it is hard to sleep. I am laying on the couch mylotting. I am going to read a book for a bit and maybe nap.
