Asking for a little brother/sister
By Victoria
@vickycheeky (184)
December 4, 2016 9:02am CST
I have a 4 year old son. He likes babies, he wanted us to borrow the baby of our neighbor. He keep on asking me to have a second baby, his little brother/sister. But we decided not to have a second baby right now, due to financial problem. We want first to have our own house. I'm pity for him, because I know that he really wants to have a little brother/sister. Having hard time explaining to him, why and when he's going to have a little brother/sister.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
4 Dec 16
it sounds like he has a nurturing personality, which will be good when you do finally have a second baby. maybe he can have a pet for the meantime?
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@vickycheeky (184)
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4 Dec 16
Yes, I can sense, that he will be a good and a caring older brother.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
6 Dec 16
It will be a nice gap 4 years of having another child . Saving for a house can take many years . So , it' better to have another child now , then stop . Just my opinion though . 
I regretted not having a child after 4 years . We only had one child , now a lady doctor turning 26 this month .
I regretted not having a child after 4 years . We only had one child , now a lady doctor turning 26 this month .1 person likes this
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
7 Dec 16
@vickycheeky Just keep praying and working for it .
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@vickycheeky (184)
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6 Dec 16
My friends are also advising me to have a second baby. Hopefully, soon. 
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@amitkokiladitya (171935)
• Agra, India
4 Dec 16
I know this is a big problem.. Even my kid always wants someone to play with..but even I don't want a second child ..
I simply cannot raise another kid
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@Magicweaver1 (343)
• New Delhi, India
5 Dec 16
I our country they say that if a child starts looking forward to a sibling.... then the baby is on the way.... :)
But I am sure he will get what he wants and with time understand the importance of the wait as well....
God bless and keep you guys happy.... Keep smiling and sharing.... :)
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@vickycheeky (184)
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5 Dec 16
That is also a joke in our country :)
Yes, he'll get what he wants, when the right time comes.
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@Magicweaver1 (343)
• New Delhi, India
5 Dec 16
@vickycheeky I am sure he will.... may God bless you and keep all of you happy....
Keep shining.... :)
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@mommymonky (325)
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4 Dec 16
I remember asking my mom the same thing. I never did get a little brother or sister.....
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@mommymonky (325)
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4 Dec 16
@vickycheeky I always wished I had one, I was a pretty lonely kid. However, I currently have three kids, and they fight over everything, so maybe the drama isn't worth it.
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@vickycheeky (184)
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4 Dec 16
@mommymonky oh, it's a quite depressing looking to your children fighting. How old are they? Maybe they are too young to understand things. Hopefully when they grow up, they won't fight anymore.
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@vickycheeky (184)
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4 Dec 16
How does it feel, growing without a brother or sister?
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@JudyEv (326912)
• Rockingham, Australia
5 Dec 16
A puppy would be less trouble and cheaper. But I'm just joking of course. Some little boys love babies.
@annastasiaaaaaa (727)
• Philippines
5 Dec 16
Just let him understand in the simplest way possible. Sooner or later, he'll have what he wants. :)
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