How were you able to find the man or the woman of your dreams?

@annierose (19307)
Philippines
December 16, 2016 2:56am CST
I get jealous of some people who were able to meet the love of their life easily. When I was a teenager, my dream is that whoever will be my first boyfriend will also be the man I will marry someday. But it did not come true. I had been through a series of breakups. And now, I wonder if my boyfriend at present will also be the man I am going to marry at the end or will I just not get married at all. Well, only time can tell what will happen.
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@LadyDuck (459684)
• Switzerland
16 Dec 16
I had two boyfriends before to find the love of my life.
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@annierose (19307)
• Philippines
16 Dec 16
@LadyDuck Hi Anna! It is a wonderful thing that after experiencing breakups, you were still able to have the courage to open your heart to another person.
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@annierose (19307)
• Philippines
16 Dec 16
@LadyDuck Well, some couple do not want to get married early just because they are not sure of one another. That is one of the reasons why some just settle to live together without getting married at all. While some did not care to get married at all even they go along well, others get married after the realization that they are perfectly fit for each other.
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@LadyDuck (459684)
• Switzerland
16 Dec 16
@annierose I was the one who break the previous two. I was not sure they were the right men for me, but I immediately knew that my actual husband was.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Dec 16
I thought my first love will be my husband. And I guess he is not because we broke up after 9 years. So far the longest relationship I've gone. I hope the one I have right now, I will have his last name.
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@annierose (19307)
• Philippines
17 Dec 16
I am sorry for what happened between you and your husband. There are no more ways for you to have a second chance?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Dec 16
@annierose Hmm. He is not my husband. He was my ex. And I have my 6 years boyfriend at the moment.
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@annierose (19307)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
@JustBhem Wow! Six years is quite long.
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@Fishmomma (11377)
• United States
17 Dec 16
My husband was the first man that I really was serious about him. He asked my father for my hand in marriage and my father was so happy that I had found the right one. We married almost one year after we had met and would have married sooner; however, a church wedding does take time to get everything organized.
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@Fishmomma (11377)
• United States
17 Dec 16
@annierose We have 2 grown daughters and 1 is married no children and the other is getting ready to marry and finish her Masters Degree.
@annierose (19307)
• Philippines
17 Dec 16
I am glad to hear about how did you find the right man for you. I hope that your relationship gets stronger and lovelier as times goes by. How many kids did you have?
@just4him (307688)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Dec 16
I was married, but he wasn't the man of my dreams.
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@annierose (19307)
• Philippines
17 Dec 16
Oh, but you love your husband, right?
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@annierose (19307)
• Philippines
18 Dec 16
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@just4him (307688)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Dec 16
@annierose I was divorced for 22 years and am now a widow as he passed away last year. I cared for him.
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@Meramar (2695)
16 Dec 16
May it be that you await too much of the person you are looking for? Sometimes, we are not able to know if we are staying with the right person until several years passed as it takes a long time to really know the person who is next to us. We are all different, so some persons are lucky to find their partner soon. Others, need to mature this statement.
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@annierose (19307)
• Philippines
16 Dec 16
@Meramar I got a persistent suitor before. He was very determined to have me and I think that if only I also had the feelings for him, I might be already married at the moment. He courted me many times and for many times, I did reject him too. Thanks God that he finally gave up on me.