LOST IN VANITY.
By Kandase
@Kandae11 (53769)
December 20, 2016 6:00am CST
My ex husband was so vain, he would sulk for days if he found himself ignored at any gathering or function.
When we were dating, his obsession with his looks wasn't that obvious - and the little I was allowed to see of that part of his character - I found amusing. However, I realized in due course that marriage to a vain man was no fun at all.
Would you get married to a very vain person? How would you deal with it when you find that your spouse is happiest when he - or she is looking in the mirror?
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@just4him (308693)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
21 Dec 16
After the wedding is a little late to worry about it. It's certainly not something to get divorced over. I hope that's not what broke you up. I wouldn't deal with it. I would just wait it out. Eventually he would come out of the bathroom.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
20 Dec 16
Oh well, that would lots of stress on our part if they always consider themselves in front of the mirror. I would not be comfortable with them.
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@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
7 May 17
@Kandae11 I found your post on the right margin.
Talking for myself: I don't like posts at all which ask for advice concerning situations the members very likely haven't experienced (yet) and will never experience.
Example: "How would you react if you learnt tomorrow that you have terminal cancer?"
How on earth can anyone answer that theoretically?
@Kandae11 (53769)
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7 May 17
I am flattered that you found this discussion posted so long ago.
Now this is not a case where I am thinking that any Mylotter - apart from me would have experienced this, but a case of 'putting oneself in another person's shoes'. People love to give advice and reason out things - do they not?
Now this is not a case where I am thinking that any Mylotter - apart from me would have experienced this, but a case of 'putting oneself in another person's shoes'. People love to give advice and reason out things - do they not?
@cacay1 (83237)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
20 Dec 16
@HAPPSINGH , hard to deal problem like that.
@vaishu0106 (968)
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20 Dec 16
I dont know..may be love care and affection can change him...I am not sure !
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@averygirl72 (37764)
• Philippines
21 Dec 16
@Kandae11 He has a very big ego. He's a difficult person to be with. Teach him to be down to earth
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@Freelanzer (10744)
• Canada
22 Dec 16
I always thought vain men was something you see in the movies but I suppose they do exist in reality. Anyway nothing wrong with a little vanity just not over the top vanity,
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@CRK109 (14558)
• United States
20 Dec 16
When I was younger, I probably would have married such a man, because I wasn't wise to the ways of the world. Now that I'm older and understand so much more what kind of man would make a perfect husband for me, I would see the vain man and then move on.
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@Gita17112016 (3611)
• Trinidad And Tobago
20 Dec 16
I dunno. Is the money good? Because if I had a very rich husband I probably wouldn't mind if he stares at himself.But I can't say for sure.
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@Gita17112016 (3611)
• Trinidad And Tobago
21 Dec 16
@Kandae11 But of course, lol. Every cloud has a silver lining.. But seriously, as you get older things of the flesh is not so important.
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