I miss a girl / myLot

Houston, Texas

January 7, 2017 10:45am CST

A girl got a doctor's degree from a famous university in USA last year. Then she married with a young man who was her school mate. We all wish them love each other forever. Recently I heard the girl got melancholia s symptom. What happened to her? I found she already devoice with the young man this year. She lives with her parents now. I wonder why an excellent girl got the bad situation? She has a good family whose parents love her so much. Now she work at a small business company. And get a low salary.

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Yuki

@yukimori (10144)

• United States

7 Jan 17

Did she become a doctor because she wanted to be a doctor, or did her parents pressure her into becoming a doctor because they wanted a child who was a doctor? Why do you assume that her situation is bad? Divorcing a spouse who isn't a good fit for whatever reason might be disheartening, but it's a new beginning for both parties. The small business might not pay a doctor's salary, but she might be content where she is right now--and if not, perhaps she is planning her next move and her parents are helping her save a portion of her pay while she lives with them. That's not really a bad situation. Maybe it's not ideal, but we can always change our situations if we're not happy with them.

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topffer

@topffer (42156)

• France

7 Jan 17

Exactly what I was thinking. It is better to do a job that we enjoy with a low salary, than a job that we dislike with a high salary : whatever others might think, they are not in her shoes.

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Linda

@Linda1234 (4714)

• Houston, Texas

7 Jan 17

@topffer I agree with you.

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Linda

@Linda1234 (4714)

• Houston, Texas

7 Jan 17

yes you are right. but I knew she did not like talk to friends now. Less speak than before.