Really Overweight!

@IvySaysHi (4467)
United States
January 9, 2017 1:48pm CST
Well I just weighed myself and I am so disappointed with the results. Unfortunately, unlike my visit in the summer to my family in Philadelphia I did not lose weight, but gained a ton of it. I weigh more than my highest weight while pregnant by like 3.5 pounds. I feel like crying, but I know I have no one to blame but myself for getting lazy and not watching what I eat. I refuse to keep letting myself get any worse. I will push myself to do my exercise and to watch what I eat regardless of my mood and energy level. This has gotten too far out of hand and the only one who can do anything about is me. Thank you for letting me get this out of my head. I feel more accountable when I let all of you know, if that makes any sense. Have you been working to get yourself into better shape? What was the breaking point that lead to you wanting to make a big change like this in your life? Do you feel like it has gotten easier over time to do the right thing?
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9 Jan 17
I do walking 5 times a week.
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@IvySaysHi (4467)
• United States
9 Jan 17
I think I am going to aim to walk at least 5 miles a week for now and gradually increase it. I am afraid of walking right now though because we got snow and some roads are icy and I don't have any shoes with good traction
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9 Jan 17
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• Aberdeen, North Carolina
10 Jan 17
I did also but the past 3 months I've been lazy lol
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@Happy2BeMe (99392)
• Canada
9 Jan 17
We are here to support you in any way that we can. Once you set your mind to it you can do anything you want. Just take one day at a time and make the necessary changes. Once you start seeing results you will be motivated to keep going. You got this!!!
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@IvySaysHi (4467)
• United States
9 Jan 17
thank you
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@Happy2BeMe (99392)
• Canada
9 Jan 17
@IvySaysHi you are welcome
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@NJChicaa (116026)
• United States
9 Jan 17
I hit rock bottom over the summer and decided to join the Transformation Challenge. It was the best thing I could have done for myself. I'm starting another challenge today. Can't wait to see what I look like in 6 weeks!
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@IvySaysHi (4467)
• United States
9 Jan 17
I know you will do amazingly
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@NJChicaa (116026)
• United States
10 Jan 17
@IvySaysHi I hope so!
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@shamish (202)
10 Jan 17
Have a blood test done.
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@IvySaysHi (4467)
• United States
10 Jan 17
for?
@IvySaysHi (4467)
• United States
12 Jan 17
@shamish sounds smart to do
@shamish (202)
11 Jan 17
@IvySaysHi Hormones, iron level etc. consult your doctor
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@Brittnyrose (1445)
• Aberdeen, North Carolina
10 Jan 17
Your not alone on this one. My doctor even told me I was over weigh but it didn't seem like it. Did you know it's hard to notice your own weight before someone else do?
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@IvySaysHi (4467)
• United States
10 Jan 17
no i didnt
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@Jam4321 (579)
• Jamaica
9 Jan 17
I know the feeling of having those few extra pounds...I'm in the process of drafting my weight loss diet planvas I respond here
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@yanzalong (18983)
• Indonesia
9 Jan 17
I do a lot of walking. That'll help ward off accumulation of fat. Once a week, I do 24-hour dry fasting too.
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@IvySaysHi (4467)
• United States
9 Jan 17
what is dry fasting?
@sabtraversa (12961)
• Italy
9 Jan 17
You can eat what you want, you can eat as often as you want, but try to keep your portions very small. That's how I did it, I only lost 22 lbs, but I don't remember in how many months. Yeah, exercise is important as well, but it must be fun. I used to walk in nature and take photos, or I simply went to the mall and gave myself some little treats (beautician or makeup) for my hard work. I've always struggled with weight and diets, held my BMI at around 30. So there was no breaking point for me, I was always attempting to lose weight, but it kept on going up and down. Once I had more time for myself, I understood I couldn't expect a fast loss, that's what I wanted: fast results. So I tried to not care about what the scale said, but only focus on doing the right choices everyday. I haven't gained weight since then, I still could lose more 22 lbs to feel perfect but I'm taking it easy. I'm now healthy, objectively attractive for most people. A story with a good end.
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@1creekgirl (40556)
• United States
9 Jan 17
It's never really easy to not over-eat for most of us. Something that works for me (when I listen) is to really pay attention to how I feel while I'm eating. I ask myself do I really still feel hungry or do I just want to keep eating because it tasts good. When I feel full, I try to quit eating right then. But it's still not easy.
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@JudyEv (325878)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Jan 17
I suppose I just suddenly realised that I had a choice as to what I ate which sounds crazy but I can make a decision to eat a lot or a little, have a piece of fruit rather than a muffin and it's my decision. Eat slightly smaller serves and keep making them smaller as you get used to less food, chew slowly so you don't have time for seconds and have a tiny bit of the things you crave. It will satisfy the craving and stop you bingeing later. Good luck.
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@IvySaysHi (4467)
• United States
9 Jan 17
thanks
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@rina110383 (24495)
10 Jan 17
Yes, I am by doing brisk walking.
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